Gah, I wrote a comment and then my computer froze. Piece of crap =/
I half-don't understand that person. Mostly why she wouldn't want to befriend/be 'exposed' to you. This is gonna turn into one of those ass-kissing comments, but I'm serious -- you're one of the coolest people on Middle-earth & beyond. Hufsa doesn't lie when it comes to other people. Besides .. I suppose we are influenced by the people we're around to a certain degree, but don't we have control over that? Eh, I don't get it. Erasing any connections with the past is only going to cloud the present/future, I would think.
Cara, I have no idea what that person is saying. But I do know this:
"Friending" on LJ is so overrated. I friend because no one but my friends ever read my journal and I'm sure I'd friend someone if they'd comment. If your idea of friends is your LJ list, you are so sadly mistaken. It's called the real world, and whether some people like it or not, you'll have the negative and positive people that are in your life. Cara, you and I have been friends for a while and I think we have a great friendship, so I'm not willing to give it up because I might disagree with you or something. It's so childish. But I agree with you that honesty from the get-go is important. People are so dishonest and afraid these days.
If your idea of friends is your LJ list, you are so sadly mistaken.
It's not. Jess and I each other before I came along and joined LJ and I didn't make that clear. What pissed me off was that she didn't tell me why she no longer wanted to be associated with me.
The thing is...The thing that's very difficult to explain about my mental disorder (which it is, and I hate saying that it but it's the truth), is that with people with BPD there's no grey area. There's only black and white. There's a reason for everything even if I or anyone else doesn't like it. I'd just like an explanation.
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I half-don't understand that person. Mostly why she wouldn't want to befriend/be 'exposed' to you. This is gonna turn into one of those ass-kissing comments, but I'm serious -- you're one of the coolest people on Middle-earth & beyond. Hufsa doesn't lie when it comes to other people. Besides .. I suppose we are influenced by the people we're around to a certain degree, but don't we have control over that? Eh, I don't get it. Erasing any connections with the past is only going to cloud the present/future, I would think.
All in all ... her loss. 111% her loss.
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"Friending" on LJ is so overrated. I friend because no one but my friends ever read my journal and I'm sure I'd friend someone if they'd comment. If your idea of friends is your LJ list, you are so sadly mistaken. It's called the real world, and whether some people like it or not, you'll have the negative and positive people that are in your life. Cara, you and I have been friends for a while and I think we have a great friendship, so I'm not willing to give it up because I might disagree with you or something. It's so childish. But I agree with you that honesty from the get-go is important. People are so dishonest and afraid these days.
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It's not. Jess and I each other before I came along and joined LJ and I didn't make that clear. What pissed me off was that she didn't tell me why she no longer wanted to be associated with me.
The thing is...The thing that's very difficult to explain about my mental disorder (which it is, and I hate saying that it but it's the truth), is that with people with BPD there's no grey area. There's only black and white. There's a reason for everything even if I or anyone else doesn't like it. I'd just like an explanation.
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