On punishing
Punishment is not a common event in our relationship. As we've said in the past, elf is only punished when I'm displeased by something she's done *and* I would have had her do something different if I'd had the chance to tell her. This means there are no punishments for impossible circumstances. There is no punishment for taking the choice I'd
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I don't feel that I have the right to comment, because I have no frame of reference - in other words, your concept of needing punishment in a relationship is not something I relate to - in fact, based on what I've discovered, the concept of a D/s relationship is something I cannot frame in reference so that I can discuss it with other people.
It's a wierd space to be in, but the bottom line isn't anything that you've done or not done, but that I personally do not feel like I'm ... able is the best word to use, to respond.
I really feel, having been through the other side of the spectrum where I actively solicited online and real-space comments, that I'm at the other end where I don't think there's a whole lot I or anyone that can contribute. Relationships are such personal journeys, it's like trying to ask someone to crawl in your head and describe yourself to you. Nigh impossible.
Anyway, that's my severely personal view of the matter. In a way, I'm embarassed now that I responded, I should have thought first. Take care.
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