BDLJP #29: The same shit you always hear.
Welcome Friends, I said was going to re-vamp this fucker, and the time couldn't be better. We've reached a very important day here, as today is the first time you can become friends with facebookers who are still in high school. Yes, i freaked out too. The end is near.
With that expository mess out of the way, let's get into the meat of this entry.
Anyone who really knows me knows that i examine relationships like bio majors study mitochondria, the shit just interests me. So i've been brewing up a new theory on this whole "love, dating, and reality" thing.
What did i get? The same shit i get every time. Which leads me to believe it might not be as hard as we make it out to be...hmm. Here's the same concretes i get, in case you've missed them.
-The key to finding what you want is knowing what you want. Nothing will come your way if you sit there, being unrealistic(this coming from the kid with two tests this week) So, a good step is to decide EXACTLY what you're looking for. Sometimes, you'd be surprised.
-Wanting love, and wanting companionship are two different things. PLEASE understand that. Someone there for physical support does not a good relationship make.
-The only word that makes sense, or should even be discussed when it comes to this whole deal is C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E.
*It's the reason the "asshole" gets the girl.
*It's the reason the ugly guy gets the girl. Know that. You being nice as shit means nothing if no moves are being made. THAT BEING SAID...
-"making the first move" is TERRIFYING. anyone who says otherwise is fulla shit.
-If you want something, go for it. If you're rejected, you WILL get another chance to have someone like you.
-Saying "there's no good guys/girls out there" is copping out. Step your game up.
-The "chase" is the only way some people can be attracted to someone. Know this before you get into stuff.
-The difference between being a whore and someone who likes sex? respect for yourself.
-Assholes are stereotypes, just like rednecks and ignorant black people. Take that into mind, and remember that generalization isn't a good thing.
-Attention whores are funny people to get drunk with.
Now that we've caught up, let's get into the real shit.
Oh WAIT!
If you know and understand all the stuff above, love isn't a hard thing to do.
Only thing i can say is that college is supposedly the time where we figure out this stuff, so i recommend trying some different stuff. like salsa dancers. mmm, salsa dancers.
I'll talk to you guys later, this rambling mess has been the BDLJP, and THIS rambling mess has been Ernest Wilkins. Chuuuch.
With that expository mess out of the way, let's get into the meat of this entry.
Anyone who really knows me knows that i examine relationships like bio majors study mitochondria, the shit just interests me. So i've been brewing up a new theory on this whole "love, dating, and reality" thing.
What did i get? The same shit i get every time. Which leads me to believe it might not be as hard as we make it out to be...hmm. Here's the same concretes i get, in case you've missed them.
-The key to finding what you want is knowing what you want. Nothing will come your way if you sit there, being unrealistic(this coming from the kid with two tests this week) So, a good step is to decide EXACTLY what you're looking for. Sometimes, you'd be surprised.
-Wanting love, and wanting companionship are two different things. PLEASE understand that. Someone there for physical support does not a good relationship make.
-The only word that makes sense, or should even be discussed when it comes to this whole deal is C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E.
*It's the reason the "asshole" gets the girl.
*It's the reason the ugly guy gets the girl. Know that. You being nice as shit means nothing if no moves are being made. THAT BEING SAID...
-"making the first move" is TERRIFYING. anyone who says otherwise is fulla shit.
-If you want something, go for it. If you're rejected, you WILL get another chance to have someone like you.
-Saying "there's no good guys/girls out there" is copping out. Step your game up.
-The "chase" is the only way some people can be attracted to someone. Know this before you get into stuff.
-The difference between being a whore and someone who likes sex? respect for yourself.
-Assholes are stereotypes, just like rednecks and ignorant black people. Take that into mind, and remember that generalization isn't a good thing.
-Attention whores are funny people to get drunk with.
Now that we've caught up, let's get into the real shit.
Oh WAIT!
If you know and understand all the stuff above, love isn't a hard thing to do.
Only thing i can say is that college is supposedly the time where we figure out this stuff, so i recommend trying some different stuff. like salsa dancers. mmm, salsa dancers.
I'll talk to you guys later, this rambling mess has been the BDLJP, and THIS rambling mess has been Ernest Wilkins. Chuuuch.