Daniel's Betrayal
So...found out that Daniel took his dad to see Eden this past weekend. And then when I found out by reading his blog he expects me to not be mad!!!! I knew nothing about the visit and never knew his dad was going. He almost always knows when I'm going! And on top of that what has made me so angry over this whole thing is the fac that he'd promised a long time ago he'd NEVER take his dad without talkin it over with me. And then, he tells me that he went last night but it wasn't til I saw the aforementioned blog I discovered he'd failed to mention his dad had went along too. Now, why do I care about knowing his dad goes? Well let's see...his dad forbid us from seeing each other and he wanted me to give her up for adoption so that Daniel could go on with his dreams without the responsibility of a child. At my very own dinner table the night I'd discovered I was pregnant, his dad sat there saying that if he saw us together, he'd make sure Daniel's scholarships were taken from him. And of course, Daniel wans't smart enough to know he couldn't do that. Now I'm sorry, there are very good reasons for adoption but running from your problem isn't one. I understand protecting your child but what I don't understand is that when you contribute to a problem how you're not suppossed to be there to help. Daniel's dad has always been nothing but rude to me. He came to the hospital (I allowed it) but acted arrogant the entire time (Even eden's amom commented on it).
Yes, I'll admit it now...part of it is jealousy he went to their new house first and to the church first...but the major part is just pure hurt and anger at him going behind my back. Daniel went behind my back, lied to me, and now sees nothing wrong with his actions. Doesn't see any mistake at all! He said him and his dad going has nothing to do with me and I have to deal with it. What angers me most of all is the fact that Daniel's dad doesn't know respect for women...never has...and I don't want my daughter to know that. He is very self-centered and does everything to glorify himself and I don't want my daughter to know a part of that. I know that his intentions aren't pure and that just makes me boil! He only wants to take interest when it's convienent! He hid the pregnancy the rest of the time. I think he's only doing this to make himself look good and feel better about all he's said and done about my daughter. Why did I want to know when Daniel's dad was going...because of all the hurt he's caused surrounding the pregnancy. Even afterwards, he continued to degrade me by saying that I would not have made a good mother for Eden. DON'T ANYONE EVER THINK YOU CAN GET AWAY WITH THAT! I WANTED more for my daughter! I chose to give her a better life. Daniel simply went along with all I decided because he chose to let his dad rule and not take part. God I'm glad that my daughter has 3 good sets of grandparents who can show her how love and support truly are intended to be.
Yes, I'll admit it now...part of it is jealousy he went to their new house first and to the church first...but the major part is just pure hurt and anger at him going behind my back. Daniel went behind my back, lied to me, and now sees nothing wrong with his actions. Doesn't see any mistake at all! He said him and his dad going has nothing to do with me and I have to deal with it. What angers me most of all is the fact that Daniel's dad doesn't know respect for women...never has...and I don't want my daughter to know that. He is very self-centered and does everything to glorify himself and I don't want my daughter to know a part of that. I know that his intentions aren't pure and that just makes me boil! He only wants to take interest when it's convienent! He hid the pregnancy the rest of the time. I think he's only doing this to make himself look good and feel better about all he's said and done about my daughter. Why did I want to know when Daniel's dad was going...because of all the hurt he's caused surrounding the pregnancy. Even afterwards, he continued to degrade me by saying that I would not have made a good mother for Eden. DON'T ANYONE EVER THINK YOU CAN GET AWAY WITH THAT! I WANTED more for my daughter! I chose to give her a better life. Daniel simply went along with all I decided because he chose to let his dad rule and not take part. God I'm glad that my daughter has 3 good sets of grandparents who can show her how love and support truly are intended to be.