Drama drama everywhere, but I guess no one can think.

[echri]

I have no patience for people that incite drama. Theres really no point to it. if people can't think calmly when they're talking to one another about the problems they have with each other there isn't any point in talking at all, because the eventual outcome will ALWAYS be more drama. Thinking in absolutes, like "well... if so and so doesn't

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[purplestain]

You know what your girlfriend threatened my Boyfriend before I got the point of completely pissed off. I settled down after she and I got done talking, it was probably better if she and I had some time to settle down before we had a talk. Then she went and sent a nasty letter to my boyfriend we can all read how nasty she was towards him.

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First of all Matt you started in on me in the fucking conversation. Second because of you, you stupid fat fuck, me and Heather are now fighting. That conversation was between your fat ass and me, but you had to be a stupid fat child and sent it to her knowing that this would happen. Fucking grow up you stupid fat bastord. Your off my msn you fat fuck. Oh and if you send this to any one to start me and that person fighting I will make your fucking life so miserable that you wont beable to stand it.

Tootles

I had every reason to be a bit miffed at her, for her to not want to talk about it is messed up. I will protect my friends to the end. If someone threatens them or hurts them in any way that person better be able to hide fast. Now in my circle of friends if one friend attacks another. I listen to both sides, I read what is typed if there is anything typed. I then try to either talk to them both and try to get them to talk things out, or I encourage them jus to stay away from eachother. The night that she and Matt got into the arguement was fine. I was still reading things that were said to figure out if things would be better if I tried to just hang out with Jessie or just hang out with Matt, and avoid putting them together at any time. Then the next day I am online and she wants to know why I did not want to go to the Dalles with you guys to pick up Corky. I had a logical reason. But at the time I was not sure how to say it with out her taking it personally. So then when I did what I always do try to explain it the long way so that I was sure to point out all my reasons. She started getting pissed saying that I was going to always defend Matt and that she should have seen it comming, when I was pointing out that she said some hurtful things towards him that I would have never thought she would do. Then I was going to tell her that, yes Matt can be mean about things and that it was not ALL HER FAULT. She started making assumptions and pissing me off. Then she decided that she was done with the topic. As far as I am concerned if you want to know something and you keep asking and the person decides to tell you. You better not try to run from it when it starts to hurt.

As for last night when I said that I wanted to talk to her. I was not going to yell at her, infact I was not going to cut her off from being a friend of mine. But because your dick needs to get laid you took it apon yourself to not let us talk. I was going to let her know that what she did when she e-mailed that to Matt it not only hurt him and upset him, but that it hurt me too. As my friend she should have left it at being done with talking to Matt. As my friend she should have at least some respect towards me and not attack my boyfriend. But instead she attacked him. Which hurts me. Danny I am extremely hurt right now. If you had let us talk it would have been for me to let her know how I felt not to end a friendship.

Jessie should have known that when she attacked Matt that he was going to tell me. I mean if one of Jessie's friends attacked you would you not let her know? I want you to think about this. I also want you to let Jessie read this.

[echri]

"getting my dick laid" wasn't the reason i didn't want you two talking, but you wouldn't listen to me when I told you that. I wasn't assuming you were going to yell at her, but I know her, and I knew the mood she was in already, and there would not have been ANYTHING constructive resulting from that conversation. All that would happen is you would both have left the conversation pissed because of the mood Jessie was in. but you wouldn't listen to me when i was explaining this, you absolutely had to talk to her RIGHT Now when YOU wanted to talk. And i'm the one that has to live with her, so yes, it was mostly in MY interests that i didn't want you two to talk last night, so go ahead and get pissed at me, i'm used to it and I can deal with it. if I had really wanted to I could have gotten her to talk to you, but I wasn't going to deal with the resulting outcome. So go ahead and get pissed off at me, but this whole "she wouldn't talk to me when i wanted her to, so i don't want anything to do with her" stuff is extremely immature. not that i'm saying Jessie is mature, which is definately far from the fact, but you both need to respect each others boundaries. That E-mail was dumb, even Jessie knows that, but she tends to do crap without thinking when she's upset. And you egging her on trying to get her to say something insulting to you the night before really upset her and made her lash out at matt for apparently turning you against her. she TOLD you that she wanted to get offline and cool off and you just kept egging her on. I was reading most of that, and i was pretty surprised, because it seemed to me that it looked like you were pissed off at her and trying to get her to give you a reason to be more pissed off at her, which is pretty much the way she took it. Now think of it this way... suppose you thought the boyfriend of a good friend of yours was trying to incite her against you, because that friend now was talking to you like she wanted you to give her an excuse to hate you, wouldn't you be upset and hate the guy with a passion? The moral of this rant is... learn to take advice when its given, especially when the advice is about the person giving it. No one knows you better than yourself.

[purplestain]

No shit no one knows me better than myself. I knew and still know what I needed to do that night. I have posted it here and on my LJ. You got in the way of it you can blame yourself I am done blaiming you. If you wish to know more about things you can look at my LJ.