Drama drama everywhere, but I guess no one can think.
I have no patience for people that incite drama. Theres really no point to it. if people can't think calmly when they're talking to one another about the problems they have with each other there isn't any point in talking at all, because the eventual outcome will ALWAYS be more drama. Thinking in absolutes, like "well... if so and so doesn't talk to me and get this straight RIGHT NOW i'm done with them" well thats just silly. Maybe "So and so" isn't ready to talk to you yet, or maybe he/she needs to calm down. Making demands and making threats to someone isn't going to make them any more receptive to what you say, it generally has the exact opposite effect, and things will be even crappier. But if a person can only think about what THEY want right now, and if they don't get what THEY want they're going to quit being their friend, well maybe you shouldn't be friends anyways. And don't have someone 'pass along' the message that you don't want to talk to them... have some freakin' patience and tell them yourself.