Thanks to
cbertsch, this is what I'll think about as I spent the rest of the evening, and on into the night... preparing for my Friday morning class:
What's your sexual style? Take the sexual style quiz for yourself! Your sexual style is predominantly Sexual Trance. For you, sex is about the trip, the altered state of consciousness. You have figured out how to fly within your own skin; you have figured out a reliable way to touch the sky. Thus variety, per se, has no real use to you; you don't get bored or jaded with the things that bring you pleasure. You know what works for you and it doesn't stop working.
You tend to the passive in sex and don't feel a need to hurry things. You'd rather luxuriate in sensuality and focus on the slow fireworks inside of you. Indeed, you are quite inwardly focused during sex. You don't talk much during sex, except where necessary to help sync up pacing; mostly you prefer to just let the experience wash over you than try to articulate or direct it.
Your sexual fantasies are typically scriptless, instead focusing on sensory images: visual, auditory, tactile, olfactory, gustatory.
Your criterion of good sex is that which causes an intense absorption into sensation, which makes you rapt. You expect your partner not to burst that bubble, not to intrude on your flight; you expect your partner to be sensitive to ambience and rhythm.
Your experience of orgasm is intense sensations in which consciousness fades away.
The meaning you make of sex is illumination. You may even consider sex a spiritual or religious experience, which connects you with the transcendent. Sex makes you feel connected to deep parts of yourself and to the universe.
Thinking about this beats
falling apart any day. And I suppose it's more or less accurate. Except for the no-talking and scriptless fantasies part, 'cause what fun is that?