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"Now normally I won't do this, but..." I like this meme. blackperson's creation.
1. How did you learn about sex?
2. What was the first sexual thing that happened to you? (Define sexual however you see fit.)
3. How did you discover that something turned you on?
4. Describe a sex-related event that has helped shape your current sexual identity.
5. Share a unfulfilled sexual fantasy.
1. Like any other American kid, TV and experience.
2. I'm actually not sure. I *think* it was humping. Humping was a really conflicting thing for me. I felt I had to pretend I didn't like humping when they chased me around the playground. Eventhough I'd sometimes run slowly so as to get "caught."
3. Through self-exploration and bad sex. Sorting between what didn't feel good and what did.
4. See #2. The whole tryiing to be "coy"/docile/passive while wanting to be chased/"caught" thing. In some ways I regret the restrictive way I was raised surrounding sex. And how I didn't get nearly enough info about it. But it did help shape some interesting quirks.
5. Having a 3 some. Though I think that will remain an unfulfilled fantasy. Still not sold on it. In theory it seems fun. The actuality of it seems... problematic (for me). I'd like to be with a female as an adult. There's other things, more situational, role play stuff. Blah.
Your turn! (post it in your journal or as a reply here)
Edit: I just changed the settings so all comments will be screened. I'll unscreen if you want though.
1. How did you learn about sex?
2. What was the first sexual thing that happened to you? (Define sexual however you see fit.)
3. How did you discover that something turned you on?
4. Describe a sex-related event that has helped shape your current sexual identity.
5. Share a unfulfilled sexual fantasy.
1. Like any other American kid, TV and experience.
2. I'm actually not sure. I *think* it was humping. Humping was a really conflicting thing for me. I felt I had to pretend I didn't like humping when they chased me around the playground. Eventhough I'd sometimes run slowly so as to get "caught."
3. Through self-exploration and bad sex. Sorting between what didn't feel good and what did.
4. See #2. The whole tryiing to be "coy"/docile/passive while wanting to be chased/"caught" thing. In some ways I regret the restrictive way I was raised surrounding sex. And how I didn't get nearly enough info about it. But it did help shape some interesting quirks.
5. Having a 3 some. Though I think that will remain an unfulfilled fantasy. Still not sold on it. In theory it seems fun. The actuality of it seems... problematic (for me). I'd like to be with a female as an adult. There's other things, more situational, role play stuff. Blah.
Your turn! (post it in your journal or as a reply here)
Edit: I just changed the settings so all comments will be screened. I'll unscreen if you want though.