Tomorrow....is what you make of it.
well it's been a while since was here, so let's get started shall we. I'm gettin really fed up wit not bein able to afford dick all, and findin a second job is hard. I also found out the other day somethin I wasn't expectin involvin someone who knows who they are. things are current;y ok wit my new gf, she did however get really pissed at me the
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2)I wouldn't quite say that women are the jelous gender.(all though often it plays out that way)I think "jelousy" is the wrong word, but that it is most always confused with feelings of inadaquecy. Women can be made to feel inadaquite very easily. You must notice, compliment, and comment.
If you are talking about ex's or other girls (even me...even though we go way back) dont do it often and in a way that would give off the impression that your gf has to compete or try to be more like that person so as to be admired or remembered or.......i dont know. Just dont make her feel like nothing compares to "She" the ex, the best friend, the whatever.
Porn: Dont lie about it. Girls arent stupid, but dirty calenders and magazines, and posters all over the place is a BIG turn off.
(unless you both find it kinky and enjoy doing these things together)
When your gf comes over cover it up, hide it, put it away etc. She might not say anything but it makes "us" feel useless and it brings on realy bad vanity habbits, and makes us feel like we arent good enough..................thus brings on the "jelousy" you speak of. It's not jelousy, its paranoia and hurt feelings.
Make your girlfriend feel like SHE is all you need to look at. Dont think your being a pig by giving her the odd raunchy compliment. (aka "I cant wait to get my hands on that sweet little ass of yours") LOL im serious though. And this is also a lesson in turning on your gf. Boys get off on visual sences. (aka porno, strippers etc) Girls get off on their audio sences. (aka dirty talk and compliments)
DONT EVER check out someone else in her presence. This ones tough cause its a bit of a double standard. Girls check EVERYONE out! Girls will look every passing person up and down.....dont know why. We dont (or at least i dont, and i dont think most other girls do)get off on it. Usually when girls look at other girls, they are being self critical. If we see you looking at the same girl we think...hmm i was right, she is better, maybe i should excuse myself for a moment and run out for a facelift.When we look at men we dont whistle and hoot and holler and have instant visuals of the dirty things we want to do to them. If we catch you looking at another girl it seriously decreases our chances of relaxing enough to enjoy any sort of sexual experience with you for a few weeks. DONT GO THERE
haha.....those are my words of wisdom!
I hope your audition was successfull!
Miss ya! Take care and all that other bullshit! xx
PS......Duuuuuuuuuude! Why didnt i just email you fuck....
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