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[drglass44]

So tell me what I should do.............

I am so nice that after I get cheated on, I decide to accept the fact that it was "misplaced feelings" and I let her continue to hang out with him. So now, I ask, what do I get out of this?.... my girlfriend goin out and having a wonderful time doing things with this guy that we have never done in our 3

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[cmufranchise]

Hey George~

How are you buddy??? I am sorry to hear that some things are bothering you with Corey. I have always been one of the bigger supporters of you two, I would like to think. I just wanna say that I really hope it works out. What's the best advice I can give ya??? Well, this really is a tough situation. I have never been the jealous type myself, but it shows how much you care that you would be concerned. My number one suggestion would be to talk to her and let you know how much it hurts you that she is hanging out with him, and the kind of strain you feel it is putting on the relationship. If you have tried that and it isn't helping things, then I would suggest trying to talk to the guy with one of two purposes. Purpose one would be to get to know him, and hopefully it will help you two build up trust in each other. It might help to diminish all the tension you feel. The other purpose would be to be like, "Hey, if you are hanging with my girl, you need to give me a reason to trust you, given your past with her." If that stuff doesn't work, then maybe, though I hope not, it may be time to say "fuck it", cause the problems may go deeper than just this guy in that case. #1 thing I can say though is...Talk To Corey. She is a great girl, and you are a great guy. I think you two can get this to work. If you ever need a friend to talk to, I am here for you man. You have my screen name. I am always willing to listen to a friend. Heck, I would like to think I was helpful to Corey when you guys had problems before. You two are both important to me, and I want to help anyway that I can.

~Mike