Anybody please respond
So tell me what I should do.............
I am so nice that after I get cheated on, I decide to accept the fact that it was "misplaced feelings" and I let her continue to hang out with him. So now, I ask, what do I get out of this?.... my girlfriend goin out and having a wonderful time doing things with this guy that we have never done in our 3 year relationship. It sounds like they had such a great time, and yes, I am jealous. I am even moreso jealous because he is the LAST guy I want her to be hanging out with, honestly.
But I am a nice guy. So what do I do?
1. Deal with recurring thoughts of them having fun together?
2. Say "fuck it" and be done with the whole thing?
Believe me, I don't want #2. So give me another alternative please??
I am so nice that after I get cheated on, I decide to accept the fact that it was "misplaced feelings" and I let her continue to hang out with him. So now, I ask, what do I get out of this?.... my girlfriend goin out and having a wonderful time doing things with this guy that we have never done in our 3 year relationship. It sounds like they had such a great time, and yes, I am jealous. I am even moreso jealous because he is the LAST guy I want her to be hanging out with, honestly.
But I am a nice guy. So what do I do?
1. Deal with recurring thoughts of them having fun together?
2. Say "fuck it" and be done with the whole thing?
Believe me, I don't want #2. So give me another alternative please??