kk im gonna try to give u the best advice i can...which might not be very goood because ive never been in a relationship but anyways here it goes...you definitely have a right to be upset about him making u worry but it really doesnt seem like he did it on purpose and it would make me upset that he spent the night at that girls house BUT i also think you should trust him in this situation unless if hes done something in the past to not make you trust him...and i dont think its that bad...ive definitely heard of a lot worst things from boys so anyways i just think u need to trust him a little bit more but also let him know why ur upset...i hope that helped?
anyways i misss youuuuu i havent seen u in forever...can we hang out soon PLEASE
ill let you punch me. but you only get one punch and no do-overs.
try to stay calm and not make it into a bigger thing than it has to be. but i definitely would have been worried to. that is really scary. i was scared when i read it.
i would have done the same exact thing. personally, i dont think you were overreacting. you were being caring and making sure he was safe. of course, he sees it differently cuz he is a guy and guys suck, but also cuz he was the one in the situation knowing he was safe and u werent there to see it so hes gunna think u were overreacting. so dont let him make u feel stupid or whatever for being a caring girlfriend. but try and forget about the fact that he stayed at a girls house. its better than him leaving and driving drunk. thank goodness he had a place to stay. ♥
you're not irrational at all for freaking out. this happens with me and dillon sometimes and he does the same thing. he gets mad at me for worrying and acts like i'm crazy and irrational. when i know if i'd done the same thing to him he probably would have been worried to. i know that doesn't help, but it actually was a weird relief to me when i read this to see other boys do that too. and it is better that he stayed at the girls house, but it would drive me crazy too even if i could trust him. so its kinda just a sucky situation. but i hope you feel better!
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anyways i misss youuuuu i havent seen u in forever...can we hang out soon PLEASE
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ill let you punch me.
but you only get one punch and no do-overs.
try to stay calm and not make it into a bigger thing than it has to be. but i definitely would have been worried to. that is really scary. i was scared when i read it.
lets hang out
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personally, i dont think you were overreacting. you were being caring and making sure he was safe. of course, he sees it differently cuz he is a guy and guys suck, but also cuz he was the one in the situation knowing he was safe and u werent there to see it so hes gunna think u were overreacting.
so dont let him make u feel stupid or whatever for being a caring girlfriend.
but try and forget about the fact that he stayed at a girls house. its better than him leaving and driving drunk. thank goodness he had a place to stay.
♥
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and it is better that he stayed at the girls house, but it would drive me crazy too even if i could trust him. so its kinda just a sucky situation.
but i hope you feel better!
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