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and the hits keep comin

Mar 07, 2005 11:12

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clumsygyrl March 8 2005, 02:32:34 UTC

my uncle committed suicide when i was eleven. it destroyed his family.

no one is the same. i... i don't know if the person understands that for them... death is it. it's done for them. but the people left behind? we're the ones who still carry the hurt.

dpfreak March 8 2005, 04:00:49 UTC

I'm so sorry, Fi. *hugs*

It's really almost surreal and unimagineable what is going on. It kind of feels like a bad nightmare, yet...it's not. And you're right; he doesn't have to deal with the aftermath. She hasn't reached the bitter stage yet though - right now she just wants to know why. I don't know if we'll ever have those answers.

clumsygyrl March 8 2005, 04:05:55 UTC

i'm okay, honey. i've had 14 years to deal with it. it still hurts and probably always will, but it's... better now.

more often than not... the answers will never come because the person who has them... is gone. *hugs* i'm so sorry. please tell your friend that... i'm sending good thoughts and prayers.

dpfreak March 8 2005, 15:42:30 UTC

Thanks, Fi. Your words mean a lot. I'll pass them along to J as well.

clumsygyrl March 9 2005, 02:38:35 UTC

KB, hon, just let her know that she's not alone.

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