Women: If a guy is harassing you, it's your responsibility to take off that button. Or guys, time every answer you give to any woman, no matter how encouraging she is.

Gaaaah. If people complain about sexual harassment at your parties, then your (male) friends are jerks and your parties suck. Get new friends or hold fewer parties.

You know, I really feel sorry for this guy. Most of the people I know have been there, and it hurts. But seriously. "Im jealous because someone I want doesn't want me, and she wants to see other people and it's all because of poly that I'm totally screwing my relationship with my wife." Not really.