if change you, you're not the you we've all come to know. then the you is dead, and your concern over wanting to be different is not applicable.
you probably worry too much. rather than try change yourself [other than normal self-improvment things we all attempt] things are much easier when you're totally accepting of yourself and have no confidence issues with yourself. don't worry about success or failure [with any given girl]. if there's an attraction and you two get along, things will just happen. if you're 'trying' then you're not totally being you, in which case the relationship will be a little weaker because of it's basis in the small fabrication.
i know this is easier said than done...we all worry about how others perceive us. but the less we do, the better [assuming we're not naturally crazy offensive].
i do worry too much. and i tend to overanalyze things. but overall i am happy with who i am, and i wouldn't change a thing. you're right, if i do change, then i'm not me anymore, and i like being me as i am now. i just have to go with flow, for lack of a better cliche. things will happen when it's right for them to happen.
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you probably worry too much. rather than try change yourself [other than normal self-improvment things we all attempt] things are much easier when you're totally accepting of yourself and have no confidence issues with yourself. don't worry about success or failure [with any given girl]. if there's an attraction and you two get along, things will just happen. if you're 'trying' then you're not totally being you, in which case the relationship will be a little weaker because of it's basis in the small fabrication.
i know this is easier said than done...we all worry about how others perceive us. but the less we do, the better [assuming we're not naturally crazy offensive].
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