Comments | dizzicizzi: god why me?

dizzicizzi

god why me?

Jun 27, 2005 15:31

Why is it that almost every friend I make ends up screwing me over because of things I can't control? I’ve just lost a friend because I’m pregnant and put a pregnancy counter with a picture of a baby up on MY live journal! Jesus I better not put up the pictures of the scan or everyone might hate me! it all started when I was at a party with her and ( Read more... )

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darskyl June 27 2005, 15:21:12 UTC

just so you now,i did not accuse you of rubbing my face in it, you misunderstood, i said, I don't need to rub my own face in it by seeing those pics when i log on. simple as. and stop trying to make me out to be the bad one, at least tell the full story and have people make up their own minds. part of which is, the day you found out you were pregnant, i was the one you asked to read the test for you, which i did, even though not 2 hours before i was told by my doc i have a condition which means it'll be difficult at best for me to get pregnant. and it was my shoulder you leant on and cried on. i held you, reassured you, and told you everything would work out. now how that leads you to think i didn't want you to have the baby i don't know. i was even willing to live with you and the baby, remember? to my and my fiances own financial detriment too.
so tell the full story before blacking my name.

dizzicizzi June 27 2005, 15:27:20 UTC

and hours before that i had held you and i held you more when i found out i was pregnant because you were in a worse state that me i comfroted you as you did me.

dizzicizzi June 27 2005, 15:28:03 UTC

oh and i havent blackend your name you did that all by yourself no assistance needed

darskyl June 27 2005, 15:39:15 UTC

how exactly?

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Ok were does one begin yrthilian June 27 2005, 16:43:41 UTC

Ok were does one begin ( ... )

Re: Ok were does one begin yrthilian June 27 2005, 16:43:57 UTC

You know were the real issue is it is not the baby thing it is not how to raise the child. The real issue is you to have become such good friends that ever since you guys were forced to move so far out that you have finally realised that you cant just pop around the corner and have a chat. It is the fact that you know live so far apart and that from both side you don’t want to travel so far to just chat ( ... )

Re: Ok were does one begin yrthilian June 27 2005, 16:50:57 UTC

ok guys i have posted this again in my LJ and market is so only you 2 and me can read it.

black_female June 28 2005, 00:15:06 UTC

All I have to say is WOW, that is no kind of friend if she can't EXCEPT you for what you are and have chosen to live and do in life. It's a ticker for crying out loud and it's YOUR lj, if it bothers her that much, here's a thought DONT read it, im sorry but people like that just urk my last nerve, I don't know the story with you and her but a friend a TRUE one at that is there for you no matter what they don't look to hinder youin any way shape or form and if they do so then one would need to strongly rethink if this is a friendship worth saving let alone a HEALTHY one to maintain. I hope things work out for the best. I know for me I could care less but that's just me I have this fuck the world mentality if it doesn't concern my children to hell with it. Take care if ya need someone to rant at or scream at im always a good eye to type too. :-)