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i hate lance.
hes such a jackass.
so im at work at starbucks today (and for those who dont know, starbucks is at the student center, and lance works for dining services at the student center.)
and was walking to go clock in and i walked around the corner and he was standing there talking to some girl i didnt know and another girl that he works with who i have grown kinda close with over the year, vanessa
who by the way he also talked shit about her. and there was a whole bunch of drama that went down between the two of them. but anyway, she cant stand him and she and i get along really well. (or at least i think, shes always really nice to me...) so anyway, naturally i said hi, and kinda tried to make small talk
cuz i figured we're both adults, there's no need to be immature...we can carry on a conversation but he was kinda short with me, so i was liek w/e. and i went and clocked in and vanessa walked over and we started talking, just casually, and then i went to work
then at one point i went downstairs and got subway, and he totally ignored me just avoided eye contact...which i thought was super immature and then i went back to work
and then even later i had gone downstairs to the stock room and i saw jammie, this girl that works in one of the shops downstairs, who's really nice. lance always used to make fun of her and pick on her (just "jokingly" just like how he used to treat me. but the two of us would always team up against lance. anyway, i know he's been hanging out with her lately through this whole break up.) anyway, since there's no reason for me NOT to be nice to her (not to mention i like her) so i stoped and talked to her for a min, just about relay for life stuff and then i said bye and again went back to work.
then i get a text message.
and i qoute:
"quit trying to steal my friends and make some of your own. I hope you getting enjoyment out of trying to make my life a living hell and quit bieng nice to me in person and talking shit about me behind your back. It makes you look like a dumbass."
wtf.
i didnt even know how to react.
i dont even know where to start with that. i cant decide if i want to fire back a nasty facebook message, and rip him a new one, or if i was to just let it go and not feed into the drama...part of me feels like i should just be the bigger person and not let it get to me. cuz thats what he wants. but another part of me feels like who does he think he is to talk to me like that?? im not about to just roll over and take it.
so i dunno.
advice?
hes such a jackass.
so im at work at starbucks today (and for those who dont know, starbucks is at the student center, and lance works for dining services at the student center.)
and was walking to go clock in and i walked around the corner and he was standing there talking to some girl i didnt know and another girl that he works with who i have grown kinda close with over the year, vanessa
who by the way he also talked shit about her. and there was a whole bunch of drama that went down between the two of them. but anyway, she cant stand him and she and i get along really well. (or at least i think, shes always really nice to me...) so anyway, naturally i said hi, and kinda tried to make small talk
cuz i figured we're both adults, there's no need to be immature...we can carry on a conversation but he was kinda short with me, so i was liek w/e. and i went and clocked in and vanessa walked over and we started talking, just casually, and then i went to work
then at one point i went downstairs and got subway, and he totally ignored me just avoided eye contact...which i thought was super immature and then i went back to work
and then even later i had gone downstairs to the stock room and i saw jammie, this girl that works in one of the shops downstairs, who's really nice. lance always used to make fun of her and pick on her (just "jokingly" just like how he used to treat me. but the two of us would always team up against lance. anyway, i know he's been hanging out with her lately through this whole break up.) anyway, since there's no reason for me NOT to be nice to her (not to mention i like her) so i stoped and talked to her for a min, just about relay for life stuff and then i said bye and again went back to work.
then i get a text message.
and i qoute:
"quit trying to steal my friends and make some of your own. I hope you getting enjoyment out of trying to make my life a living hell and quit bieng nice to me in person and talking shit about me behind your back. It makes you look like a dumbass."
wtf.
i didnt even know how to react.
i dont even know where to start with that. i cant decide if i want to fire back a nasty facebook message, and rip him a new one, or if i was to just let it go and not feed into the drama...part of me feels like i should just be the bigger person and not let it get to me. cuz thats what he wants. but another part of me feels like who does he think he is to talk to me like that?? im not about to just roll over and take it.
so i dunno.
advice?