Falling Apart.
Ok. Let's start from the beginning:
Matt got to Singapore March 29th. I talked to him the 30th and then later that night I got an email from him on facebook saying that his lap top broke and he had to go buy another one after we got paid on the 1st. Ok, that sucks. But, stuff happens. So, he told me he would get it the first and we could talk again. Here we are going on the 5th and he still has not gotten his lap top. So, that blows. BUT, the story gets EVEN better. So, I get an email from him yesterday saying that he lost his bank card when he went out yesterday and that he needed me to call and cancel his card and order him a new card. And that he still hadn't bought a lap top and now he won't be able to until he gets his card and he doesn't know if Singapore is going to be setting up a way for them to get mail, which means that I would have to send his card to his Japan base and he wouldn't get it until May. And, therefore, we wouldn't be able to talk until May. So, that upset me even more. So, I call the bank today and apparently whoever found his card already called and cancelled the card for him. So, thank you good samaritan. But, guess where they found his card? At a night club, of course! So, that upset me EVEN more. So then, I tell the guy that I need to order a new card for my husband because he is on deployment in Singapore and he needs a card. He tells me that I can't do that. Matthew has to be the one to call. I tried to explain to him that Matthew can not call because he is over-seas, but apparently bank of america doesn't care about that. So, now I can't get Matt a new card. So, I called his mother to see if she could try since she has the Power Of Attorney paperwork. So, she's going to try Monday.
BUT, it gets EVEN BETTER! So, I have not used me and Matt's joint account at all since the 1st. Expect to take the $500 out for rent. Which would leave $900 in the account. Well... I checked the account today ((the 4th)) because I wanted to make sure that if someone did find the card, they didn't take any money out of it before they returned it. No, THEY didn't take any money out. My lovely husband, however, managed to spend $860 from the 1st 'till the 3rd when he lost his card. Now, I should have expected that because that is how he is. It would have still upset me, but I would have at least handled it better than I am handling it. My reasoning behind being SOOOO upset about is this: Matt told me that his lap top broke on the 31st. He told me on the 1st he was going to buy a new one. Now...he never did. And yet, he still managed to spend a total of $860 on God knows what. $860 could have bought him a DAMN nice lap top. But, apparently he found more important things to spend our...oh SORRY...HIS money on. THAT is why I am so upset. And I can't even talk to him about it. I wrote him a long message on facebook about it all. Im sure that when he reads it he's going to get mad and say we're getting divorced because he isn't putting up with my shit. But, all I would like to know is where the hell and how the hell he spent $860 in 2 1/2 days! That is completley RIDICULOUS!
That is all.
Matt got to Singapore March 29th. I talked to him the 30th and then later that night I got an email from him on facebook saying that his lap top broke and he had to go buy another one after we got paid on the 1st. Ok, that sucks. But, stuff happens. So, he told me he would get it the first and we could talk again. Here we are going on the 5th and he still has not gotten his lap top. So, that blows. BUT, the story gets EVEN better. So, I get an email from him yesterday saying that he lost his bank card when he went out yesterday and that he needed me to call and cancel his card and order him a new card. And that he still hadn't bought a lap top and now he won't be able to until he gets his card and he doesn't know if Singapore is going to be setting up a way for them to get mail, which means that I would have to send his card to his Japan base and he wouldn't get it until May. And, therefore, we wouldn't be able to talk until May. So, that upset me even more. So, I call the bank today and apparently whoever found his card already called and cancelled the card for him. So, thank you good samaritan. But, guess where they found his card? At a night club, of course! So, that upset me EVEN more. So then, I tell the guy that I need to order a new card for my husband because he is on deployment in Singapore and he needs a card. He tells me that I can't do that. Matthew has to be the one to call. I tried to explain to him that Matthew can not call because he is over-seas, but apparently bank of america doesn't care about that. So, now I can't get Matt a new card. So, I called his mother to see if she could try since she has the Power Of Attorney paperwork. So, she's going to try Monday.
BUT, it gets EVEN BETTER! So, I have not used me and Matt's joint account at all since the 1st. Expect to take the $500 out for rent. Which would leave $900 in the account. Well... I checked the account today ((the 4th)) because I wanted to make sure that if someone did find the card, they didn't take any money out of it before they returned it. No, THEY didn't take any money out. My lovely husband, however, managed to spend $860 from the 1st 'till the 3rd when he lost his card. Now, I should have expected that because that is how he is. It would have still upset me, but I would have at least handled it better than I am handling it. My reasoning behind being SOOOO upset about is this: Matt told me that his lap top broke on the 31st. He told me on the 1st he was going to buy a new one. Now...he never did. And yet, he still managed to spend a total of $860 on God knows what. $860 could have bought him a DAMN nice lap top. But, apparently he found more important things to spend our...oh SORRY...HIS money on. THAT is why I am so upset. And I can't even talk to him about it. I wrote him a long message on facebook about it all. Im sure that when he reads it he's going to get mad and say we're getting divorced because he isn't putting up with my shit. But, all I would like to know is where the hell and how the hell he spent $860 in 2 1/2 days! That is completley RIDICULOUS!
That is all.