Look,
mtts_rss made a sad ladybird who feels his masculinity is being impugned.
I shall call thee a 'gentbloke', good sir, if t'will aid you. And then point out that it could be worse: at least you're a ladybug who doesn't look like Russell Howard in drag. As does Jonathan Brandis, in the 1992 drag-up-to-play-on-a-girls-soccer-team-cos-Rodney-Dangerfield-said-so movie 'Ladybugs'. See?