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Aug 07, 2007 13:25

Girl's night was a bust. I personally had a great time, but I'm done trying to coordinate shit like that. I don't know why, but people will bitch bitch bitch about never getting together, constantly say OH I WANT TO SEE YOU WE SHOULD HANG OUT and talk all kinds of fluffy bullshit, but never actually follow through on it. Sad to me, really ( Read more... )

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pamber August 7 2007, 18:32:14 UTC

Crappy that things didn't go off like you expected. but yeah its like we are going through the same crap. Why can't bitches just act right!?!?! j/k

So how far from Chicago are you living? I need to come visit.

lorynhatesyou August 7 2007, 18:47:41 UTC

we're in the burbs...bout a half hour from the city

pamber August 7 2007, 18:48:58 UTC

North or south? Sorry I'm a little retard :D

What burb

lorynhatesyou August 7 2007, 18:55:06 UTC

naperville

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devonie August 7 2007, 19:45:19 UTC

^
simply stated :)

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devonie August 7 2007, 19:54:55 UTC

I hear you, and I know that it isn't always easy. I work all week, ref volleyball every evening, am reffing or traveling pretty much every weekend.

But it isn't about GOING OUT. It is about getting together, spending time with each other, even if it isn't every weekend like it used to be. I don't think trying to coordinate something every 4 months or so is asking too much out of friends. I've tried putting together BBQ's (multiple), a bean bag tournament, putt-putt golf tournament, a birthday party, girl's nights (gay and straight versions), and it just seems like nothing ever works out right. They aren't all PARTY LIKE ITS 1999 ALL NIGHT LONG BRING YOUR CHECKBOOK nights, you know?

I just feel like, for as much as people talk about wanting to get together, its all a bunch of bullshit.

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devonie August 8 2007, 13:56:48 UTC

I absolutely agree, and I'm the same way. If I want to hang out, I say so, and if not, I keep my mouth shut. I'm too busy to talk shit about wanting to get together when I really don't!

Pretty much the only thing that can keep me from going to something that I REALLY want to go to is illness. When that strikes, what can ya do?

Hi Jew-D <3

imma_vally August 8 2007, 21:22:00 UTC

i would have liked to attend girls night. i didnt commit to it, b/c i have a lot going on. i'm glad you had a good time though. :)