Before we got married, I'd pause from time to time and wonder if being married would feel different. I wasn't sure why it would - after all, we had the life together. We had the house, we had the cats, we'd been living together for years. Is a piece of paper going to make that big a difference in a reality that isn't glossed over by silly romantic ( Read more... )

Something that I feel really lucky about is the way both Aspen and Kite communicate with me. They each have a knack for laying out information to me in a way that I can process very easily. And they are both really good at being open to whatever feedback I have for them.

I'm learning a lot these days.

Yes, there are things I want to do that are not allowed with Kite right now. We are taking things slowly, trying to be respectful. Kissing remains on the forbidden list, and it's a little constricting, but it's something I know we'll eventually have, if this continues. Like a lot of things that fall in the "physical affection" category ( Read more... )

I'm not positive, but I think I might have a bit of a crush on my NewFriend. ;)