"Just being, is not enough." Very true. Is it the people themselves boring you or is it their thoughts or way of living? Sometimes our own discontent can be put onto those around us. You have these plans and are now taking steps to see that they are followed through. And yeah, at times it is pretty discouraging to see where the world or society is going. Not everyone is like that. As for the sex thing, yes there are ppl who do it because they felt like it or just cause it was something to do. In contrast to those ppl you have the ones who would only involve themselves with someone if they had special feelings for them outside of sex. And these ppl would not be able to be with someone unless those feelings exist. Integrity and being genuine in who you are and being unapologetic about it can be what separates ppl. If you find yourself bored with those around you, look outward and inward. Find something different and new or look within to figure out why that tolerance is waning. Good luck :)
======================= "those ppl you have the ones who would only involve themselves with someone if they had special feelings for them outside of sex"- I completely agree. ======================== Aren't people defined by nothing more than their thoughts and way of living? They're certainly not their pants, or car, or latest hairstyle. Though it can make a statement about "their thoughts and way of living".
Actually I would have to say what bores me is in fact that very thing.
But... ======================== "If you find yourself bored with those around you, look outward and inward. Find something different and new or look within to figure out why that tolerance is waning" ========================
Its not my friends its just other people...and its not really my tolerance. I'm not going to blow up at anyone or shun them, its just that they accept things and lay down because it feels nice or something I dunno. Its on both sides too, the none mainstream and the mainstream.
People have different reasons for what they do...maybe it's some weird backwards defense mechanism or something. I've met ppl that took a lot of shit because they never had someone tell them there are other ways. People do what's comfortable alot of the time, which is limiting.
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Very true. Is it the people themselves boring you or is it their thoughts or way of living? Sometimes our own discontent can be put onto those around us. You have these plans and are now taking steps to see that they are followed through. And yeah, at times it is pretty discouraging to see where the world or society is going. Not everyone is like that. As for the sex thing, yes there are ppl who do it because they felt like it or just cause it was something to do. In contrast to those ppl you have the ones who would only involve themselves with someone if they had special feelings for them outside of sex. And these ppl would not be able to be with someone unless those feelings exist. Integrity and being genuine in who you are and being unapologetic about it can be what separates ppl. If you find yourself bored with those around you, look outward and inward. Find something different and new or look within to figure out why that tolerance is waning. Good luck :)
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"those ppl you have the ones who would only involve themselves with someone if they had special feelings for them outside of sex"- I completely agree.
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Aren't people defined by nothing more than their thoughts and way of living? They're certainly not their pants, or car, or latest hairstyle. Though it can make a statement about "their thoughts and way of living".
Actually I would have to say what bores me is in fact that very thing.
But...
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"If you find yourself bored with those around you, look outward and inward. Find something different and new or look within to figure out why that tolerance is waning"
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Its not my friends its just other people...and its not really my tolerance. I'm not going to blow up at anyone or shun them, its just that they accept things and lay down because it feels nice or something I dunno. Its on both sides too, the none mainstream and the mainstream.
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