Sep 15, 2008 14:07
I was a complete dork in high school and the first year of college, to the point of being elected the 'most likely to remain a virgin for life,' my freshman year. The idea of being a social guy was foreign to me, let alone being able to date multiple models at the same time. Through personal reflection, I decided to focus on the easiest part of my life to control... having fun. Within a month I was dating regularly from girls I met at work, although the girls in my life were no where near the quality I have now. I was still a virgin with the intent of staying that way until marriage.
I became engaged and had sex within a year, and with a catholic school girl like fever I began researching the forbidden topic. My research broadened to anything about sex, women, relationships I could find. Over the next six years, I dated woman from my social circle easily and developed my research. I learned massage on a professional level, maintained long term relationships with girls even after I dated them, had regular threesomes, and explored the sexual world as opportunity arose. I had only three taboos I would not explore, and my local reputation as a sexual guru was enough to get me laid on a regular basis. I had a long term gf who was bisexual and open to trying anything including bringing other women into our life.
After college, I moved to Florida and was shit out of luck. I had all of the sex, relationship, seduction skills accept the one I need most, how to meet a girl from a cold approach. I actually tried telling girls as soon as possible that I was great in bed, had studied sex since I was 19, could make them have multiple orgasms, etc. While I had some success with girls I met online, I had no success at clubs, bars, malls, supermarkets, etc. I tried everything I could think of, but had very little luck with what I came to know as night or day game.
Finally, while researching sex and Barnes & Nobles I discovered a book called The Game. I came into the seduction community with advanced mid and end game, with almost no way to use it on new women effectively. After a year and a half I was getting laid regularly from cold approaches, and I had spent an average of 4-5 nights out a week. I decided to start teaching casually, taking on students for free.
I worked new students for two years after that, and discovered that having game yourself and being able to teach it were two completely different challenges. Everyone I worked with seemed to have completely different challenges than me, and I had to find methods that would work to help them develop past them. My first students were so frustrated becase they could see me game, and saw very little success themself at first. I didn't know how to communicate what they needed to become a better PUA, and having them watch me pull girls did very little for the teaching process.
After many sleepless nights pondering what to do better, countless hours in field with students at all levels, I was seeing real improvement in my students. I noticed faster improvement in my new students, and discovered in field stuff I could do to get them laid directly by temporarily taking over sets during SP's. Finally, I had more than enough value to offer my students both as an instructor and a PUA to start teaching professionally.