Not looking forward to another ineffective 'debate'...
Axl, after a bit of poking-with-a-stick to be sure it's not LOLed, has sprawled on a Nexus Couch in that boneless way only teenagers and, apparently, teenage-looking Reploids can.
"Ok, let's say there's a problem. A pretty big messy one, and you don't know how to fix it. And someone you know does have a plan, but it's something you know isn't going to work and is pretty much just going to make everything go all to hell. How do you talk them out of it when they keep insisting you have to have a 'better' suggestion than what they want to do?"
"And if you don't know that one either, how do you keep someone from being a bigoted jerk?"
"Ok, let's say there's a problem. A pretty big messy one, and you don't know how to fix it. And someone you know does have a plan, but it's something you know isn't going to work and is pretty much just going to make everything go all to hell. How do you talk them out of it when they keep insisting you have to have a 'better' suggestion than what they want to do?"
"And if you don't know that one either, how do you keep someone from being a bigoted jerk?"