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May 11, 2009 17:44

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majorshoefetish May 12 2009, 01:02:04 UTC
Fuck around with a number three. Waiting for one and two is a waste of precious time.

An alternative is that you can get so drunk that you forget both of them and who you are at the same time.

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anon etc bangyoudead May 12 2009, 01:08:38 UTC
Worthy suggestions, all.

It's the stupidest thing. How do people even deal with timing and ... fucking emotions normally? Marriage and a house and 2.5 kids. How are they not insane?

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majorshoefetish May 12 2009, 01:11:01 UTC
Hell if I know. I did the marriage and house thing. I can't get those years back no matter how hard I try. Run away while you still can.

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bangyoudead May 12 2009, 01:15:21 UTC
There is less than zero chance of that happening in any situation, but it's still a bizarre thought. (My condolences, by the by.)

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catenarian May 12 2009, 01:32:16 UTC
I suppose it depends on if you feel the wait & the sacrifice are worth it on either end & if the risk of going insane/getting killed/so on and so forth is worth it as well. Sometimes the bad ideas are the best ideas & sometimes they're just the bad ones, etc etc. Also, a step back can maybe help if you take the time to clear your perspective.

But y, a little fucked maybe, yeah.

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bangyoudead May 12 2009, 01:50:42 UTC
Yeah, taking a step back is my usual choice when dealing with bad ideas, but I'm trying to avoid the whole 'abandoning her like a complete jackass' thing.

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catenarian May 12 2009, 01:57:02 UTC
I can see where that would be problematic, yes - but taking a step back doesn't always have to equal abandonment. So long as you're not fleeing entirely, it can hopefully be seen as making an effort. That depends on those involved though, of course.

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bangyoudead May 12 2009, 02:19:45 UTC
It's ... I don't know. It's a bit weird.

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somatophylax May 12 2009, 01:38:51 UTC
No, not completely. It sounds inevitable that you're going to get hurt, but if you love them then...love them. Do they return the favor?

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bangyoudead May 12 2009, 01:51:40 UTC
Y... uh..

It's complicated?

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somatophylax May 12 2009, 03:04:14 UTC
And why does it always have to be so complicated?

I guess you wouldn't be asking if it wasn't, though. Let me ask another question: could you live with your regrets if you didn't act on this? Or the ones you'll have if you do act on it. An educated guess may be all you have.

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bangyoudead May 12 2009, 03:08:38 UTC
We have interesting lives, in the curse sort of way.

I can actually live with a whole hell of a lot. I'm more concerned about everyone else. It's not fair of me to put anyone in a situation having to deal with ... the fallout.

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bangyoudead May 12 2009, 03:00:44 UTC
We've been together for ... years and years now, it's just circumstances and life that causes the problems, not any lack of love. Unfortunately.

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stupid_lunkers May 12 2009, 03:03:58 UTC
Jenks really hates responding to texts.

It's like a psychotic game of Dance Dance Revolution to use a keyboard when you're only four inches tall.

[CAPSLOCK]

S T U P I D L U N K E R.

O N L Y N O H O P E W H E N Y O U D I E T R Y I N G.

I F T H E R E I S S O M E O N E E L S E, Y O U E I T H E R W E R E N ' T

M E A N T T O B E O R Y O U J U S T H A V E T O T R Y H A R D E R.

L O V E I S W O R T H R I S K I N G D Y I N G F O R.

Pause.

Pant pant pant pant pant.

Grumble.

"Stupid lunkers and their stupid sizeist world."

Deep breath.

I F I T I S R E A L F I N D Y O U R B A L L S A N D T A K E T H E R I S K. A T L E A S T I F Y O U D I E , Y O U W I L L G O O U T K N O W I N G Y O U F O U G H T F O R T H E O N L Y T H I N G R E A L L Y W O R T H F I G H T I N G & D Y I N G F O R.

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bangyoudead May 12 2009, 03:07:29 UTC
THANK YOU FOR THAT AMAZING ADVICE WHICH I CAN'T POSSIBLY GO WRONG WITH. I APPRECIATE IT.

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stupid_lunkers May 12 2009, 03:34:42 UTC
I ' M 4 I N C H E S T A L L , N O T

Pause.

Stretch.

CTRL-B.

B L I N D.

CTRL-B.

Resume.

W H A T D I D Y O U A S K T H E Q U E S T I O N F O R , I F Y O U D I D N O T W A N T T O B E T O L D T O G O F O R I T ?

D I D Y O U W A N T M E T O T E L L Y O U ' O H , F O R G E T H E R . S T A R - C R O S S E D R O M A N C E S N E V E R W O R K O U T' ?

S O R R Y. W R O N G P I X I E.

M Y C L A N D O E S N ' T D O D E F E A T I S T P I N I N G.

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bangyoudead May 12 2009, 03:44:50 UTC
It's called reality, and it's not black and white, and also -- whatever normal morons go posting here asking how to put their pants on, I have no idea, but obviously I'm at the end of my rope here or I wouldn't be asking about a topic like this.

ps just get one of the smaller ones, dude.

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