Good questions...
I went to visit a friend that I haven't spent a whole lot of time with recently this past weekend. Honestly, we didn't spend a lot of time together this weekend either, comparatively. I was caught off guard actually. We were discussing each others current problems. Normally, this would be a one-sided conversation with me listening to the problems. This time it was time equally shared and I walked away with having a lot of good questions put to me! Surprisingly insightful. Don't know if it was a bit of growing up or having a good therapist or both… but it definitely helped put a bit of perspective on things in a way I couldn't see before… any answers? Oh, of course not, but definitely good material to contemplate...