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[dazdnconfoozed]

How much crap do I have to put up with from him? How bad does he have to make me feel about myself before I stand up for myself and say enough. I've never felt like I as ever good enough for him. And now im ungrateful as well? A daughter should never feel 2nd rate and that's how I feel. I feel like his wife always comes first, no matter what. The

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[bluesilverstar]

Sometimes, confrontation on the problem helps to solve it. Telling him what he is doing, I believe, is a good thing. Ignorance is bliss, but going on in life constantly subjected to this wont do you any good, nor him

[dazdnconfoozed]

I think what is so hard about all of this is that when I was 16 I called him out on crap and told him he makes me feel like nothing I do is ever good enough. Then things got better for like...a year...then it slowly got back to this where I just can't take it anymore. I told him that I feel like his wife comes first and that I feel 2nd rate...and he told me "do you want me to talk about your man? Lets not throw stones." Seriously? This only proves my point....I didn't even say anything bad about her...I said HE puts her first...in front of his daughter. And he can't even aknowledge what he's doing to me even when I practically spell it out for him. Instead, im talking shit about his wife. Then he says he's sorry for hurting me and he lost his temper and his mind...I told him that an appology is great but its not gonna change how hurt I am. He said he'd keep his opinions about me to himself and im like ughhh. Doesn't he see that makes it worse? The fact that he THINKS such horrible things about me is the problem!! How is it that