Burned, and burned bad

Jan 02, 2008 23:15

Long.

So...an update on THIS (nuances might not be comprehensible without reading prior entry, although general gist should be understandable), and needing advice.

Cheater, cheater, pumpkin eater )

cheating, being lead on, update

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porcelain_ocean January 3 2008, 21:11:08 UTC
my 2 cents, for what they're worth:

1. quit, no questions asked. I don't really know where you are but you can always get another job once you get your grades back on track again. A job at a grocer isn't worth the rest of your career, you're a bright girl so don't let a f*ckwit ruin it.
2. lying or not, that's not the question. He took advantage of you for months and that makes him a f*ckwit, and a royal one at that. You owe him nothing.
3. Put the presents away til you're over everything. They were presents, or idiot tax, whatever you want to call them. They're yours, he's not going to care if he gets them back (I'm assuming they're not things he's interested in), and you will have given something away you enjoy. If nothing else you got two cool gifts and a whole lot of experience out of this whole thing goes.

Getting over him gets easier when you don't have to worry about how he's going to schedule you, all the terrible things that have happened because of him etc. Get your grades up, go out with female friends, get a new job, spoil yourself. Cut off all contact, take him out of your phone and off your messenger. You can always go back, there's no sense in stressing yourself out now

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