I'm with Color Me Badd on this one...

[darlin_sane]

Okay, so I know I still haven't really elaborated on this post... I just haven't been in the mood to sit and intentionally stew about the whole thing enough to write about it. Plus those feelings have sunken down into my stomach for awhile, simmering on low and waiting for the next time I get antsy and crave massive amounts of inspiration before

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[katrinar]

i rated myself a 2 because i like flirting with girls and kissing girls, but i have ZERO interest in sex with girls. it actually turns me off if it gets past kissing - even light, above clothes petting with another woman turns me off in a big way...but as i said, i love makeouts. with ANYONE cute pretty much hahaha.

i like being totally submissive with boys as well - i have absolutely NO desire to be in control in the bedroom and i think this is because i have like 100% control outside of the bedroom. matt has even mentioned relinquishing control to me in his life (and not that he hates it either, i keep him in check where he lets me and he's thankful for that and it fulfills my need for being a control freak).

i used to have casual sex regularly, but i never really liked it. i love the familiarity of one partner - and i've been in 3 serious relationships over the last 7 years with only about 5 months total singlehood in between. that doesn't mean i don't fantasize about others - but the one thing i really love about being with matt is that we both talk about attractive people and i am not afraid to say "i totally have a crush on that boy/girl. he's/she's very cute" and for matt to agree (most of the time) and for him to say the same about boys and girls too. neither of us are into polyamory, but we're also realistic. matt's the first guy i've been with who i've actually been comfortable watching porn with or using toys with, which is awesome and totally empowering. it's the first time i've been with someone and not been afraid of having only that person as my partner for the rest of my life. he's adventurous enough to keep me on my toes and he certainly likes teaching!!!