It suppose it's better than sweetheart.

[darksally]

"Hey, mocha lady!"
"Pardon me?"
"Yes! You, mocha lady. How do I get to the convention center?"
"Just go out that door, go down the stairs, turn right, and cross the street. You can't miss it."
"Great! Thanks, mocha lady!"
"That's mocha ma-Dame to you, sir. And you're very welcome."
"Yes, ma'am. Thank you, mocha ma'am."

Damned right.