Sometimes it's good to leave the other one the fuck alone for awhile so they can collect themselves. Yes break-ups hurt, and neither of you are completely over the other, so distance will do the two of you much good. Flame will stop bitching all the time over stupid comments that Toki continues to ask. Girlfriend, I know where you are coming from when you ask these questions, I've done it too, but sometimes you need to use your own logic instead of just blurting out the answer yourself.
I suggest the two of you stay the fuck away from the other for atleast two weeks. Don't phone, don't e-mail, don't text, don't comment on LJ, DA or whatever it is you two have in common. Take a break from this problem and heal, ok?
Every one of my relationships that has ended left me in a situation where I didn't want to talk to them and I didn't for as long as it took. Use your own feelings and emotions and just take a fucking break. I feel for both of. I care about both of your sanities however I am so sick of this bickering. From all of you, Sufi, Jessie, Toki, Flame, Anna the lot of you who are involved. I'm even sick of trying to help you guys out and bitching as well. If you two can't have a civil conversation it's better to not have one at all at this point. When the two of you grow up (meaning realize that this speech isn't healthy), get over the fact that the relationship is over, then it's a good time to talk again, with a clean new slate, as different people; because right now all I see is mindless babble that people say after they've broken up.
I'm sorry Toki, that I don't have your side of the story. I'm sorry Anna for not having your side of the story. I'm sorry Jessie for not having your side of the story. But this is getting riddickulous. We are all how old. Let's use that maturity!
i've stopped, i dont even remember the last time i mentioned him in my LJ, so hes the one that keeps going. and he ends up mentioning me, so i comment on that. this is actually one of the first times that i've broken up w/ someone and it's ended up like this. all my other ex bfs and i are still friends, we all left on good terms. but this is just crazy.
he told me to move on, im moving on and he told jessie he could have me. i really don't see what the problem is.
the only reason i comment to him is because i'm mentioned. so when he stops, i'll stop.
no.. when u say something... dont MEAN something else u said u cant remember the last time u mentioned me.. u know exactly what that meant. u just didnt expect me to actually tell u when
I don't give a shit about LJ. LJ is just a place where people rant and try and attract attention, I hate that. I only have one bad relationship with my exes too, but that doesn't matter, this is what it is.
Stop following him. If you want things to change, take initiative.
We both know that I wasn't even the slightest nice to her in that comment. Get over your penis and realize that just because another person has a vagina doesn't mean I'm immediately on their side.
Sometimes it's good to leave the other one the fuck alone for awhile so they can collect themselves. Yes break-ups hurt, and neither of you are completely over the other, so distance will do the two of you much good. Flame will stop bitching all the time over stupid comments that Toki continues to ask. Girlfriend, I know where you are coming from when you ask these questions, I've done it too, but sometimes you need to use your own logic instead of just blurting out the answer yourself.
I suggest the two of you stay the fuck away from the other for atleast two weeks. Don't phone, don't e-mail, don't text, don't comment on LJ, DA or whatever it is you two have in common. Take a break from this problem and heal, ok?
Every one of my relationships that has ended left me in a situation where I didn't want to talk to them and I didn't for as long as it took. Use your own feelings and emotions and just take a fucking break. I feel for both of. I care about both of your sanities however I am so sick of this bickering. From all of you, Sufi, Jessie, Toki, Flame, Anna the lot of you who are involved. I'm even sick of trying to help you guys out and bitching as well. If you two can't have a civil conversation it's better to not have one at all at this point. When the two of you grow up (meaning realize that this speech isn't healthy), get over the fact that the relationship is over, then it's a good time to talk again, with a clean new slate, as different people; because right now all I see is mindless babble that people say after they've broken up.
I'm sorry Toki, that I don't have your side of the story. I'm sorry Anna for not having your side of the story. I'm sorry Jessie for not having your side of the story. But this is getting riddickulous. We are all how old. Let's use that maturity!
Call me if need be. You know my numba.
V.S is out!
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he told me to move on, im moving on and he told jessie he could have me. i really don't see what the problem is.
the only reason i comment to him is because i'm mentioned. so when he stops, i'll stop.
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Stop following him. If you want things to change, take initiative.
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admit it, you're only defending her because she has a vagina.
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