What Early 20s Could Do to You
My friends started working last year. As they enjoy life to the fullest by becoming professionals and of course persons earning money, they are also trying to do more than they are capable of. They even think of getting a masters degree. In this generation that we live in, it's getting harder squeezing ourselves into the world for a financially stable and happy life.
It's quite a relief getting that school burden off our shoulders and therefore, our social lives now become legal. However, it's not to the point that we do it on an exaggerated basis, like we do it everyday. We are just starting our careers at this point, and we still want to prove something. So, we might as well not veer our focus on that.
I remember one of them feeling depressed, desperate for a romance that she hasn't felt for years. Another one also was asking us to look for a guy, in which she made it as a pun, but we don't think she really did. Another one is having a budding romance. And here I am, just being mum about it. Well, not that much, since I always tell them (in a chucklesome way) that I would get a boyfriend anytime sooner. I am not even sure why I want one. Is it because I want to experience how it feels like being treated like a princess? Or is it because I think engaging in a relationship will be my sweet escape from reality? Now, that, I will have to find. At the back of my mind, I haven't set myself yet for that kind of journey. I think it's best for me to engage in finding and accepting my identity, which is still yet to be found. In that way, even if they say that love doesn't choose it's own time, I can proudly say that I am able to love someone because I loved myself first.
Being in your early 20s means you have to find yourself. Life will indeed be much better if you know who you are and it cascades to how your future will look like. There will be tons of realizations before you hit 30, or even 25. You must not forget that what keeps us alive is based on our lifestyle too. We start to realize how going to the gym and eating healthy food give us the chance to live more and appreciate the value of life. And of course, we become happy and contented if we have completed all the needs with God's guidance. For now, we are only just getting there, so better do what we can to achieve those.
It's quite a relief getting that school burden off our shoulders and therefore, our social lives now become legal. However, it's not to the point that we do it on an exaggerated basis, like we do it everyday. We are just starting our careers at this point, and we still want to prove something. So, we might as well not veer our focus on that.
I remember one of them feeling depressed, desperate for a romance that she hasn't felt for years. Another one also was asking us to look for a guy, in which she made it as a pun, but we don't think she really did. Another one is having a budding romance. And here I am, just being mum about it. Well, not that much, since I always tell them (in a chucklesome way) that I would get a boyfriend anytime sooner. I am not even sure why I want one. Is it because I want to experience how it feels like being treated like a princess? Or is it because I think engaging in a relationship will be my sweet escape from reality? Now, that, I will have to find. At the back of my mind, I haven't set myself yet for that kind of journey. I think it's best for me to engage in finding and accepting my identity, which is still yet to be found. In that way, even if they say that love doesn't choose it's own time, I can proudly say that I am able to love someone because I loved myself first.
Being in your early 20s means you have to find yourself. Life will indeed be much better if you know who you are and it cascades to how your future will look like. There will be tons of realizations before you hit 30, or even 25. You must not forget that what keeps us alive is based on our lifestyle too. We start to realize how going to the gym and eating healthy food give us the chance to live more and appreciate the value of life. And of course, we become happy and contented if we have completed all the needs with God's guidance. For now, we are only just getting there, so better do what we can to achieve those.