The issue about cleaning up
Hi dear community, I happened to find you today and thought I could make a crosspost from my own LJ;
It started getting crappy yesterday evening when we had to carry the trash bags up the street so the lazy binman-people could pick them up from there (they don't come down our street) when Y decided to be an ass leaving the 2 or 3 trash bags for me which has been ripped open by dumb stray cats who wanted their insides
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No fuck you, really. This isn't my job, I know it's neither yours because it's not our fault that out of all the 23783486345348 trash bags which were around, ours got ripped open, but I don't see why -I- should be picking up the smelly trash by myself. She was like, "first comes first serves".
Not only that, she actually felt it was nessecairy to poke me about washing the dishes, when it's MY decission when I do them, if it bothers her so hard, she could do it herself.
We don't have a plan anymore because she figured thats annoying, so everyone's just doing chores randomly and write it down into some planner, but like I said, it's not my problem if it's bothering her.
(I wanted to do it today anyway but nevermind, I'm so pissed off)
She can get that sort of motherly annoying.
And she's trying to pummel me into household all the time even though I'm not doing much less, it's just that she's doing too much sometimes. I'm really no messy, I like it clean myself but god, sometimes she's brooming the kitchen or anything even though it's still fine, and she writes it down in the planner and gets herself some extra points idk.
... and you know, it's not like she doesn't leave dirt around. For example if she did cut onions on the shelf, do you think she'd actually remove the leftovers?
No, she just leaves them around because that's fine right. Admittingly I have been doing that in the beginning, too, but I stopped that behaviour a while by now but she's still doing it (not to mention she was preaching on me about it before)
She also accidentially has broken a few things of mine by now, like one of my favourite milk glass, a bottle of olive oil which was still almost full and a few other things, and would you think she would have refunded the bottle of olive oil at least?
Oh yeah almost forgot to mention that Y broke the roller shutter in the kitchen.
It was kinda broken before because you couldn't let it down until some point or it would be messing up and get wry and make trouble when you want to pull it up again, but it still worked.
And I have asked her fucking multiple 345734957345 times to NOT let it down more but that certain point, and she did it anway, a hundred times, and now it's broken and you can't pull it up anymore at all, so it's always dark in the kitchen which I find terribly depressing especially if I have to do the dishes and the sun's shining outside.
It started getting crappy yesterday evening when we had to carry the trash bags up the street so the lazy binman-people could pick them up from there (they don't come down our street) when Y decided to be an ass leaving the 2 or 3 trash bags for me which has been ripped open by dumb stray cats who wanted their insides
Like
No fuck you, really. This isn't my job, I know it's neither yours because it's not our fault that out of all the 23783486345348 trash bags which were around, ours got ripped open, but I don't see why -I- should be picking up the smelly trash by myself. She was like, "first comes first serves".
Not only that, she actually felt it was nessecairy to poke me about washing the dishes, when it's MY decission when I do them, if it bothers her so hard, she could do it herself.
We don't have a plan anymore because she figured thats annoying, so everyone's just doing chores randomly and write it down into some planner, but like I said, it's not my problem if it's bothering her.
(I wanted to do it today anyway but nevermind, I'm so pissed off)
She can get that sort of motherly annoying.
And she's trying to pummel me into household all the time even though I'm not doing much less, it's just that she's doing too much sometimes. I'm really no messy, I like it clean myself but god, sometimes she's brooming the kitchen or anything even though it's still fine, and she writes it down in the planner and gets herself some extra points idk.
... and you know, it's not like she doesn't leave dirt around. For example if she did cut onions on the shelf, do you think she'd actually remove the leftovers?
No, she just leaves them around because that's fine right. Admittingly I have been doing that in the beginning, too, but I stopped that behaviour a while by now but she's still doing it (not to mention she was preaching on me about it before)
She also accidentially has broken a few things of mine by now, like one of my favourite milk glass, a bottle of olive oil which was still almost full and a few other things, and would you think she would have refunded the bottle of olive oil at least?
Oh yeah almost forgot to mention that Y broke the roller shutter in the kitchen.
It was kinda broken before because you couldn't let it down until some point or it would be messing up and get wry and make trouble when you want to pull it up again, but it still worked.
And I have asked her fucking multiple 345734957345 times to NOT let it down more but that certain point, and she did it anway, a hundred times, and now it's broken and you can't pull it up anymore at all, so it's always dark in the kitchen which I find terribly depressing especially if I have to do the dishes and the sun's shining outside.