I've somewhat found a few decent methods of achieving this goal and if you really want to achieve it, here's my advice although it's honestly not the easiest or most fun to do but it might be worth it for you if you need it that badly.....
Personally the best thing I think one can do is aim to go out, party and take drugs less obviously. This doesn't necessarily have to make for boring times, I've basically tried to find other things to do with people like watch movies, play video games, going shopping, just wholesome things where you can purely connect with people with the things you love. In my case, I've cut out a lot of friends to find out who these real friends I need to find are.
It doesn't have to be done forever but to do it temporarily is always a nice thing and in general I think the other thing I heavily reccommend is to be purely yourself, I know everyone will say that I'm not fake I am a real person but all to often we basically all come to compromises and agreements with our friends and everyone ends up trying to change themselves a bit to fit in better with their friends.
I've basically took it in myself to get rid of a lot of people, put a lot less emphasis on my social life and just see people who I really want to see and those who I believe truly deserve to actually see me rather then dragging me along to places for less then desirable reasons.
Honestly, it's never going to be easy to find these people, it's seriously a nightmare to find people like this, but they are out there......
Personally the best thing I think one can do is aim to go out, party and take drugs less obviously. This doesn't necessarily have to make for boring times, I've basically tried to find other things to do with people like watch movies, play video games, going shopping, just wholesome things where you can purely connect with people with the things you love. In my case, I've cut out a lot of friends to find out who these real friends I need to find are.
It doesn't have to be done forever but to do it temporarily is always a nice thing and in general I think the other thing I heavily reccommend is to be purely yourself, I know everyone will say that I'm not fake I am a real person but all to often we basically all come to compromises and agreements with our friends and everyone ends up trying to change themselves a bit to fit in better with their friends.
I've basically took it in myself to get rid of a lot of people, put a lot less emphasis on my social life and just see people who I really want to see and those who I believe truly deserve to actually see me rather then dragging me along to places for less then desirable reasons.
Honestly, it's never going to be easy to find these people, it's seriously a nightmare to find people like this, but they are out there......
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