Oct 05, 2005 13:46
Ok, so every girl has one. A list, whether it be a mental one or one they keep tucked away in a journal or diary, of qualities that think are a 'must-have' in a man. And while I do believe that everyone has a list, regardless of if they admit it or not, I also believe that you can truly fall in love with a person who doesn't have any of those qualities, b/c love is a fucked-up game that loves to play tricks on you. Anyways, here's my list.
1. Must be funny and have a great sense of humor. Being funny is the sexiest attribute ever!
2. No liars, cheaters, players, etc. If ya can't fuck me and only me, then ya better not fuck me at all.
3. Your # of sex partners should be less than 10, I want a guy with experience, but not too much experience, I don't want to feel as if I have to be better than more than 10 bitches, that's alot of pressure and insecurity for me.
4. You must like sports, whether that means playing them or watching them. I am a total tomboy, and I loooooooooove watching college basketball.
5. You must be down with hanging out in sweats one nite and doing something random or spur of the moment the next nite. I like to mix it up alot.
6. You should believe in soulmates and the seriousness of marriage and kids, etc.
7. Every once in a while, you do something sweet or nice. Not flowers or corny shit, but just let me know that you care.
8. You gotta be able to keep up in the party and drinkin dept. If not, then ya gotta be my certified back rubber when I drink too much.
9. I'm really open about looks. I really believe that a personality is what makes someone attractive; I've dated tall skinny boys, big football religious boys, drunks, druggies, players, you name it, I have prolly dated it.
10. You must realize that I have had some really shitty things done to me by men that I thought loved me. So, if I openly confess my feelings for you (which would take a really long time btw) you have to realize how vunerable and fragile that would make me, so you can't break my heart.
Ok, that's my list. It's not long, bc I'm not picky about materialistic type shit. I just want someone to make me happy and be loyal to me. And knowing my luck, the next guy I fall for will posess none of these areas lol.