To whom it may concern...

[cutecookiecat]

(or, if you prefer, You are neither Anne C. Stone nor James E. Starrs... sorry)

(I wrote this today while waiting for a phone call from a London Hospital, and couldn't concentrate on anything else anyway... Please forgive me for any grammar/spelling/sentence structure mistake resulting from that fact)

*sigh*

Trust me, I’m really not THAT kind of

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[cutecookiecat]

so it's annoying when you keep making these assumptions

I know, and I'm very sorry for that.

However, what else am I supposed to do?

All in all, I'm just raising questions, as you can see... Questions I REALLY want an answer to, and I'm glad at least you are giving me one. (In my eyes, it's kinda ironic that the person who demanded this post is not replying to it, but truth be told, I expected that. Sometimes silence speaks louder than words anyway.)

I'm honestly sorry I had to include you (even though only indirectly) and I thought it through more than once, but I wanted to point exactly what you just confirmed: with you, ice (and sphinx) accepts your opinion and maybe even the fact Gabriel is for real, with me, she doesn't.

Look at the initial post: we both defend Gabriel, we both ask "why this hate?". I get called a liar and part of a fraud (amongst other things), you are told she loves you and doesn't care who you are friends with (something I was told before, too).

I know icey is a closer friend to you than I ever was to her, but does that justify this completely different treatment?

And if I did anything to deserve it (other than, well, not hating Neph openly), I just want to know. Just like you wanted to know from Ardwynna, remember? Is that so bad?

Now, I don't want to ruin or question your friendshio with icey. You know I said in the past I would never do that; and you know that at one point, I even offered you to defriend me if the situation required it. Because I know how important she is to you. Does that look like I'm trying to convince you she's bad? If I ever came across as that, it was HONESTLY not my intention.

Just to make it entirely clear: This post was not aimed at you. I know where you stand, and I accept that.

All I did here was questioning why certain actions have been taken in a certain way, and explaining why some of them surprise me. That's it.

It's not an attack, it's not an offense. It was a try to find answers, and a try to explain my side.

And I'm forcing no one to speak. I'm just offering a chance here, but the choice is always yours. You are welcome to give me your opinion, even if it's different from mine, even if it's to tell me I made mistakes or I'm simply wrong. You are also welcome not to say anything.

The choice is yours, and I will respect it. I'm deeply sorry for that one time I didn't by giving you an information you didn't want. But I try my best to learn from my mistakes.

Thanks for your post, and for clearing some thing up for me.

[chibipinkbunny]

You are welcome to give me your opinion, even if it's different from mine, even if it's to tell me I made mistakes or I'm simply wrong. You are also welcome not to say anything.

I'm choosing the latter because I think it's in both of our bests interests. I felt I had to clear up some misunderstandings about me, but that's it.

[cutecookiecat]

I respect that.

Thank you anyway.

[cutecookiecat]

Oh, I know where ice_lady stands. She made it more than clear in the past, and she won't change her opinion.
Meanwhile, sphinx replied (in the other thread) and for the most part, the answers were as I expected.

According to sphinx, they both still firmly believe Gabriel is fictional. And to be honest, I think no proof we could ever provide will make them change their mind, unless we buy them both plane tickets to Australia and arrange a meeting with Gabriel (oh, and provide official documents like his mother's birth- and death certificate; amongst other thing). I'm not even kidding.

It's sad, but I think that is a fact. Even before the post was published, they had their opinion made up, and even though they said we could have provided evidence, I find that hard to believe, because I made several offers of such which they didn't care for; and I still wonder what they were expecting? There is only so much I can do, after all...

But yeah, I consider this matter over for me. I'm sick and tired of it.

Please, leave bunny out of it though. She clearly stated she wants no part of this, and she will not talk about certain points.