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I just had the best talk with Elizabeth about life...hmmm..I feel so together (well as in I know where I am in my life and where I may be going/feel ok that I don't know about my future)
I realized the answer to the whole relationship question: where is this going? is irrelevant at this point b/c what answer would make someone feel like there's a point to keep something going? "well, I think we may get married sometime"? heck NO, I'm 20! The only true answer for me to that question is this relationship is not going anywhere that I can realistically define, but I know that it's important in being a learning experience that will help me figure out what I want in future relationships and how I want to be in them...it's just part of the journey to something (hopefully) more real and permanent and will help me know when I find someone I want to marry! Like I have no idea where I'll be in a couple of years, so why even worry about stuff like that?
Also, I am sick of hearing ppl say "K is so boring" and "there's nothing to do...I'm so bored" Stop blaming the place and the situation....it's up to you to make the best of things and to have fun! Just get a friend or two and make something happen!!
I've been having SOOO much fun this qtr and it's because I'm acting like such a kid, literally frolicking around and not caring at all about what I look like or what people think...I think I've always usually made the best out of situations and try to make everything fun and it's really great when it's just really easy to have fun, like it has been!
JUST LIVE IN THE MOMENT! everything will work out in the end!
I realized the answer to the whole relationship question: where is this going? is irrelevant at this point b/c what answer would make someone feel like there's a point to keep something going? "well, I think we may get married sometime"? heck NO, I'm 20! The only true answer for me to that question is this relationship is not going anywhere that I can realistically define, but I know that it's important in being a learning experience that will help me figure out what I want in future relationships and how I want to be in them...it's just part of the journey to something (hopefully) more real and permanent and will help me know when I find someone I want to marry! Like I have no idea where I'll be in a couple of years, so why even worry about stuff like that?
Also, I am sick of hearing ppl say "K is so boring" and "there's nothing to do...I'm so bored" Stop blaming the place and the situation....it's up to you to make the best of things and to have fun! Just get a friend or two and make something happen!!
I've been having SOOO much fun this qtr and it's because I'm acting like such a kid, literally frolicking around and not caring at all about what I look like or what people think...I think I've always usually made the best out of situations and try to make everything fun and it's really great when it's just really easy to have fun, like it has been!
JUST LIVE IN THE MOMENT! everything will work out in the end!