GRRRRR...
As I suspected my mom's "boyfriend" is an asshole. He was here for two weeks and then Wednesday morning he decided to pack up all his shit and drive back to North Carolina because "his daughter was in a car accident and he didn't know how long he'd have to stay". The moment my mom told me this I knew it was bullshit and I was right. Of course I couldn't say I told you so because my mom is crushed, literally broken and it's his fault. He was nice and respectful while he was here but I still don't know if it was an act to get on my good side, he wasn't here long enough for me to determine that but obviously his true colors came out with this. Just adds to the other crap he's pulled, he was supposed to visit a year or so ago but backed out at the last possible second citing cold feet which left my mom very upset AND he lied about having a stroke and his reasoning for that was because he thought mom would get bored with him and he wanted her to stick around so he came up with that.
WHAT. THE. FUCK. DUDE.
What kind of person would do shit like that?! I mean I've had my share of online friendships, some good, some bad, some involved lies but for the most part I was SMART about it. You are not truly friends with a computer screen and until you meet someone there's always a possibility that their entire story is a lie. It sucks but it's the truth. She says she knows everything about him but she only knows what he tells her and since he's lied before who's to say it's not all a lie? I hate that lack of honesty and I hate that my mom got sucked into it and cannot turn away even given what's happened. She says they love each other and she wants him to come back and it sucks for me because all I want to do is shake her and yell and say that he doesn't deserve you and that you'll find someone else, someone LOCAL, but she really was happy for the first time in 2 years and I couldn't be the one to break her even more than she currently is.
He left Wednesday morning, said he was driving straight through back to NC but that he would call her on Thurs. She said it was a tearful goodbye, he came to the restaurant and said he had to leave because it was his daughter blah, blah, blah and she called him when she got home from work and they cried some more and said they love each other and he was adamant that the past couple weeks were the best of his life and he would try his hardest to come back blah, blah, blah. He never called yesterday. Mom called him but he didn't answer and his TracPhone doesn't have voicemail. So she called his niece who my mom has talked to a bunch on the phone and pleaded with her to be honest and being that this Tammy woman is the most level headed person in that family so far she answered my mom's question that I made her ask. Was his daughter in a car accident? NO SHE WAS NOT. He left because he missed his kids, who are all grown by the way, and his grankids. I know how that feels to miss someone but he knew that would happen when he chose to move here and so did they. He talked to them every damn day on the phone. Grow up, get a set of balls, be a man and tell your kids that you are trying to be happy. Its not like they were never going to see him again! And most importantly don't fucking make up a story and lie to my mom because you're too chicken shit to tell her that you're a damn wuss who can't hack it.
She wants him back but I don't want to hear his name anymore. He doesn't deserve my mom. I'm so pissed. He broke her heart, I want to break him!
WHAT. THE. FUCK. DUDE.
What kind of person would do shit like that?! I mean I've had my share of online friendships, some good, some bad, some involved lies but for the most part I was SMART about it. You are not truly friends with a computer screen and until you meet someone there's always a possibility that their entire story is a lie. It sucks but it's the truth. She says she knows everything about him but she only knows what he tells her and since he's lied before who's to say it's not all a lie? I hate that lack of honesty and I hate that my mom got sucked into it and cannot turn away even given what's happened. She says they love each other and she wants him to come back and it sucks for me because all I want to do is shake her and yell and say that he doesn't deserve you and that you'll find someone else, someone LOCAL, but she really was happy for the first time in 2 years and I couldn't be the one to break her even more than she currently is.
He left Wednesday morning, said he was driving straight through back to NC but that he would call her on Thurs. She said it was a tearful goodbye, he came to the restaurant and said he had to leave because it was his daughter blah, blah, blah and she called him when she got home from work and they cried some more and said they love each other and he was adamant that the past couple weeks were the best of his life and he would try his hardest to come back blah, blah, blah. He never called yesterday. Mom called him but he didn't answer and his TracPhone doesn't have voicemail. So she called his niece who my mom has talked to a bunch on the phone and pleaded with her to be honest and being that this Tammy woman is the most level headed person in that family so far she answered my mom's question that I made her ask. Was his daughter in a car accident? NO SHE WAS NOT. He left because he missed his kids, who are all grown by the way, and his grankids. I know how that feels to miss someone but he knew that would happen when he chose to move here and so did they. He talked to them every damn day on the phone. Grow up, get a set of balls, be a man and tell your kids that you are trying to be happy. Its not like they were never going to see him again! And most importantly don't fucking make up a story and lie to my mom because you're too chicken shit to tell her that you're a damn wuss who can't hack it.
She wants him back but I don't want to hear his name anymore. He doesn't deserve my mom. I'm so pissed. He broke her heart, I want to break him!