...and what started it!
Oh,
RIGHT below the e-mail that prompted me to write THIS POST, was the e-mail thread that started it... And aside from the e-mail, you should see the text exchange over a few months. Where I REALLY had to hold my tongue and try to be nice, but the behaviour of the other person was.... bizarre.
The sad irony is that he is (was?) a nurse in the psych ward of a major Sydney hospital. Scary stuff, right?
So, just after Xmas 2017, I got the following response to my big annual Xmas Newsletter that I e-mail out to just about everyone whose address I have.
This is the response:
"How did you get my email?
We are not friends (you unfriended me) anymore and I am uninterested. Thanks.
**** ******".
And here's the gaslighting bit. Because it was indeed HE that deleted me off his friends list on Facebook (not that I should care), but the fact that he tried to pin that on me? No... I don't take wrongful accusations lightly, and based on recent text exchanges, I sent the following e-mail back to him (which is written in a style very unlike me, but like I said, when this Taurus charges, he charges HARD!)
"Grow the fuck up, ****.
YOU unfriended me! AND blocked me!
And the last 2 text messages you sent to me hinted at committing suicide, and then stated you were dead.
The irony that you worked in a psych ward. You should be a patient there.
Good luck with your life."
Like I said - it takes a LOT to get me to write like that, but if you saw the texts, you'd understand that there's only so much self-induced drama that I can tolerate from someone else...
And then this is what he responded to me with:
"Right Mr gossip about everyone behind their backs like a stupid gossipy queen and then send stupid “newsletters” that nobody reads or are interested in because you’re so demanding for attention.
Here’s a huge hint, nobody likes you mate LOL
Don’t email me again.
**** ******"
What's funny is that I'm probably the least gossipy person I know because if someone tells me something, I tend to forget it, or it's not important or relevant to me. And there's normally no need to share it with anyone else, because... well... it achieves nothing.
I love the fact that he states "nobody likes you", and then adds LOL after it, as if in his subconscious he knows that it's not true. Because thankfully, for all my issues, I know that I'm a good / nice person, and the majority of people (and I'm sure there's a few exceptions), do like me.
I don't know why it's taken me close to 7 years to write this, but I know I wanted to document it... I just procrastinate over so many things! LOL
RIGHT below the e-mail that prompted me to write THIS POST, was the e-mail thread that started it... And aside from the e-mail, you should see the text exchange over a few months. Where I REALLY had to hold my tongue and try to be nice, but the behaviour of the other person was.... bizarre.
The sad irony is that he is (was?) a nurse in the psych ward of a major Sydney hospital. Scary stuff, right?
So, just after Xmas 2017, I got the following response to my big annual Xmas Newsletter that I e-mail out to just about everyone whose address I have.
This is the response:
"How did you get my email?
We are not friends (you unfriended me) anymore and I am uninterested. Thanks.
**** ******".
And here's the gaslighting bit. Because it was indeed HE that deleted me off his friends list on Facebook (not that I should care), but the fact that he tried to pin that on me? No... I don't take wrongful accusations lightly, and based on recent text exchanges, I sent the following e-mail back to him (which is written in a style very unlike me, but like I said, when this Taurus charges, he charges HARD!)
"Grow the fuck up, ****.
YOU unfriended me! AND blocked me!
And the last 2 text messages you sent to me hinted at committing suicide, and then stated you were dead.
The irony that you worked in a psych ward. You should be a patient there.
Good luck with your life."
Like I said - it takes a LOT to get me to write like that, but if you saw the texts, you'd understand that there's only so much self-induced drama that I can tolerate from someone else...
And then this is what he responded to me with:
"Right Mr gossip about everyone behind their backs like a stupid gossipy queen and then send stupid “newsletters” that nobody reads or are interested in because you’re so demanding for attention.
Here’s a huge hint, nobody likes you mate LOL
Don’t email me again.
**** ******"
What's funny is that I'm probably the least gossipy person I know because if someone tells me something, I tend to forget it, or it's not important or relevant to me. And there's normally no need to share it with anyone else, because... well... it achieves nothing.
I love the fact that he states "nobody likes you", and then adds LOL after it, as if in his subconscious he knows that it's not true. Because thankfully, for all my issues, I know that I'm a good / nice person, and the majority of people (and I'm sure there's a few exceptions), do like me.
I don't know why it's taken me close to 7 years to write this, but I know I wanted to document it... I just procrastinate over so many things! LOL