I spent an hour at Target trying to decide what to make for dinner because I'm so fucking indecisive. And that's basically where I stand in life, at this very moment.
Oh you. I think you should listen to our wise friend and me (agreeing with her, because she's probably right). It didn't sound like he had the greatest track record...apparently, people can change, but...I haven't see it happen often. Look at me. I don't even need to explain that reference. You know me.
The guy obviously has little to ZERO respect for Jacob and yours relationship, otherwise those situations wouldn't have taken place. Personally, I would let him go, but that's your choice of course.
Ask yourself this: Would he take you to "March Of The Penguins"? I think not. I don't think any guy would, unless he really cared for his friend. ;D
Just on Dave's behalf, since he is not here to defend himself.
He is not a bad guy.
He's thrown into this situation, where no matter what he does he can't be right. A hot gorgeous girl he likes calls him up and wants to hang out. What? What else would he do. But wait.... she has a boyfriend.... yet she made out with him and shows interest in him on some level.... too much confusion for his penis to handle.
Not that I am trying to dog on Lynn... I obviously don't know any more than what Lynn has told me... and have held a two sentence conversation with Dave on the subject. So I am definitely not that expert.
Supposedly he didn't know that I was in a relationship, but you're getting off-track, that's not the point. The blame shouldn't fall onto anyone else but me. THIS IS ALL ME. It's not a matter of how good his character is or whatever, it's about why am I being such a moron??
Okay, you know I love you to pieces and wouldn't say anything that didn't need to be said, so please forgive me for what follows... or just choose not to respond and disown me as a friend (as history goes in my little world) Please, please know I am saying all of this for your own good.
Yes. I feel you are being extremely unfair to Jacob... if Mike ever did any of the things you have been doing to Jacob, there wouldn't be a relationship, I would have been gone a long time ago... but that is just me, not everyone works like me, obviously. Jacob has been very patient and very forgiving. And even though you keep saying he is fine with everything, I somehow think that is not the truth. You are very lucky to have him
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The guy obviously has little to ZERO respect for Jacob and yours relationship, otherwise those situations wouldn't have taken place. Personally, I would let him go, but that's your choice of course.
Ask yourself this: Would he take you to "March Of The Penguins"? I think not. I don't think any guy would, unless he really cared for his friend. ;D
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He is not a bad guy.
He's thrown into this situation, where no matter what he does he can't be right. A hot gorgeous girl he likes calls him up and wants to hang out. What? What else would he do. But wait.... she has a boyfriend.... yet she made out with him and shows interest in him on some level.... too much confusion for his penis to handle.
Not that I am trying to dog on Lynn... I obviously don't know any more than what Lynn has told me... and have held a two sentence conversation with Dave on the subject. So I am definitely not that expert.
Just don't blame Dave for Lynn's actions.
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Hope you figure this out soon.
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Well, work awaits. =/
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Yes. I feel you are being extremely unfair to Jacob... if Mike ever did any of the things you have been doing to Jacob, there wouldn't be a relationship, I would have been gone a long time ago... but that is just me, not everyone works like me, obviously. Jacob has been very patient and very forgiving. And even though you keep saying he is fine with everything, I somehow think that is not the truth. You are very lucky to have him ( ... )
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