Reflections

[crzymoo2]

What am i doing... I think I am fucking up my relationship and i just don;t know how to fix it. Maybe Paul is right no matter what he does I won't ever be truly happy. He has changed so much and I have seen him try so hard, and it doesn't even register with me when he does something I don't like, that is all I think about. In a lot of ways I am

Comments

[notthatjennifer]

The main question is "Are you happy?" If you can say that you are more than 80% of the time, then it's worth staying in a relationship, or so the conventional wisdom says. If the majority of the time, you aren't satisfied, then you may need to re-evaluate your relationship. It's not a perfect rule that one has to follow all the time, but it's something that I find helps

[crzymoo2]

That's good to hear. It's hard to tell when and if your views have changed because sadly I don't get to see you very much. When my mom moves here I will have a reliable babysitter and we must plan a girls night out!

I am happy most of the time, it's just been a really hard time. Having a kid changes so much about life and relationships, not even to mention hormones and shit; things are starting to balance back out as both of us have realized what we would lose. People can learn about each other for a lifetime, on that scale 2 years really isn't that much time to adjust and know someone.

[crzymoo2]

Not to mention I am still learning about my friends 10 year down the line... WOw, it really has been nearly 10 years!