zjande wrote: Have you scoured the Loving More site? (at lovemore.com)
Never heard of it! Thanks!
and: Are you feeling like you're torn between allowing yourself to fall head over heels for C, or waiting (& hoping) that your husband will "allow" it & give you his blessings?
Yes! Except it's too late to wait for 'permission'. I adore her. Well, I'm very smitten. Not really 'in love' I guess. We're so different. I just can't find the willpower to stay away. Whatever that means. On top of it, she would like very much if I just didn't even have a husband.
and also: We both know from the bottom of our souls that we're in this marriage for the long run, forever.
Yes! Everything that we've been through lately, I would have thought we'd be on rocky ground. Instead, we have become closer in some ways, and realized how much we really are committed. I do have fantasies, though, of living my life in a different way. I really hope that's normal. Anyone?
and: He IS my home.
This is exactly how I feel about Ben, and I've told him so.
And finally: I hope you & your husband can agree that exploring & experiencing new & wonderful people is, well, wonderful!
If I was completely, bluntly honest, I would admit that I may not be so gracious if HE wanted a girlfriend, although I would love to find it in myself to be just fine with it. I think I would feel so very free if all those fears and green monsters were gone, and we could really see US.
Never heard of it! Thanks!
and: Are you feeling like you're torn between allowing yourself to fall head over heels for C, or waiting (& hoping) that your husband will "allow" it & give you his blessings?
Yes! Except it's too late to wait for 'permission'. I adore her. Well, I'm very smitten. Not really 'in love' I guess. We're so different. I just can't find the willpower to stay away. Whatever that means. On top of it, she would like very much if I just didn't even have a husband.
and also: We both know from the bottom of our souls that we're in this marriage for the long run, forever.
Yes! Everything that we've been through lately, I would have thought we'd be on rocky ground. Instead, we have become closer in some ways, and realized how much we really are committed. I do have fantasies, though, of living my life in a different way. I really hope that's normal. Anyone?
and: He IS my home.
This is exactly how I feel about Ben, and I've told him so.
And finally: I hope you & your husband can agree that exploring & experiencing new & wonderful people is, well, wonderful!
If I was completely, bluntly honest, I would admit that I may not be so gracious if HE wanted a girlfriend, although I would love to find it in myself to be just fine with it. I think I would feel so very free if all those fears and green monsters were gone, and we could really see US.
Thankyou! I always enjoy your posts!
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