I think maybe I'm not a good person.

[crazy_v_chan]

A friend of mine just got married. She was one of my bestfriends and we used to be roomates. I was around when she meet her furture husband and I supported her the best I could even after she moved out. I saw her a couple of times and it was just like the same. But  I guess we just lost touch and I used to leave her messages on her myspace that I

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[alchmicaladagio]

I had a friend do that to, and it wasnt me who wasnt a good friend. It was her. Sounds to me like you were the one who was the friend, and she threw you away for a new life, new friends. My former friend just stopped talking to me, ignored me like she didnt hear or see me, and told people bad things about me( so did her mother...and we were 8th graders! Her mother repetively said I tried to kill myself at thier house. Um...I cut myself on the fingertip with an exacto knife. On accident.)

You are a good friend V. Maybe you dont always say the right thing, maybe cant always give what the other needs. But who can? Dont let her blantant disregard make you think you arent worthy of her attentions. She isnt worthy of yours if this is what she is going to be like.

[resin_roulette]

*big hugs for V* I agree with Bre.It wasn't you being the bad friend,it was her.There is a possibility you said something she didnt like or something she heard wrong through the grapevine but if it was anything,it was nothing to be thrown away for.It happens and everyone has done it once,twice,a thousand times before.It's like a game of telephone.It nevers comes out the way it started.Bre forgets,it's not once that the same thing happened to her,it's twice.She's refering to a girl named Tina but Andrea(naughtyfairyspirit on the boards) did the same thing to the both of us when she got married and moved away.We recieved a Dear John letter out of the blue signed her,another girl who we had been friends with for a long time and "others".We've never found out who these "others" were either.But,it turns out she had been bad mouthing us behind our backs for a long time and had purposefully poisoned our friendship with Cindy(the other girl who signed the letter) who we had been out to lunch with only 2-3 weeks before and had a lovely time.

[crazy_v_chan]

You're right. I told Justin about it and he said she was a bitch to me anyway. I guess I just don't see how people mistreat me. I dunno, and I can't even ask her what happened. I guess I'll never know.

[doll_paparazzi]

You can't always trust in other people's opinions. I had a VERY close friend when I was growing up and it was the same thing. We were going to be each other's maids of honor, yaddita-yaddita. My father HATED her and she was (hind-site and all that) a selfish, immature girl. When I got married, I eloped and I apologized to her. I was hoping to get married again when we had money and do the wedding right. But when she got married, she purposely cut me out of the wedding completely and then, I never heard from her again

[crazy_v_chan]

I guess it hit me kinda hard because I haven't had it happen before. IF someone stopped talking to me I didn't care. But you're right. I should toss it to the wind.

[wiggly_fish]

well, I don't have a big comment like everyone else, but I figured I'd let you know that you are in fact a GREAT person and that I love you. <3