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[corwinnx]

Not sure why I'm posting tonight, perhaps just to vent some. I know it's been awhile. Well the lung disease I have is called Sarcoidosis, I read up about it, most likely it's not going to kill me but it won't be going away and I have some of the symptoms and I read the treatment and it gives me some of those issues too when I'm taking the meds

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Ok, so what happened was this. I had been seeing my sons about every weekend or so, and then I got a call, from my 12 year old that he and his younger brother (8) had had enough and ran away (again) from their home. I asked what happened and the story I got was that my ex-gf's (their mother) Ex-husband (father of another child she has) got mad at my 12 hear for mumbling something under his breath, to which he then called him a "jerk", then he lost his mind grabbed a plastic baseball bat and started to him my 12 and 8 year old, to which he grabbed an umbrella and fought back to protect him and his brother, somehow in this my 8 year old got pushed down a flight of stairs by the guy and then they decided they had had enough and hid the phones, took a cell and ran away. they were calling me to come get them. I tried to talk to them, reason with them (my 12 year old anyway) and explain the problem that now has developed, sometime during this my ex's NEW fiancee (yes, they all live together) called me and when I asked what was up he was just going to hang up and NOT tell me they were gone, till I brought it up, and then he hung up. So, back to the boys, a few minutes later the Ex-husband shows up, grabs the phone, my son says call 911 and then it disconnects. I try to get a hold of her fiancee of course he doesn't want to talk. Nothing happens.
Next day I get a phone call from my son, he tells me they got taken home and punished/spanked for running away, that their mom told the ex he had to leave and then the fiancee over rode her and said no, he can stay and she just shut up. He also tells me that her fiancee has told them they are no longer allowed to eat any food unless they bought it with their own money. Then her fiancee comes in and my sons says he has to go, I tell him to put him on that I want to talk to him. I hear him tell my son that if I want to talk to him I need to call him. So I did, immediately, no answer, left a message, called again 30 minutes later, no answer, left a message, told him that if he did not call me then he would be getting a visit he would not like. Finally I get a phone call, I ask him what's going on, he avoids it, I ask him about the ex being allowed to stay, he says he won't talk to me about it, I express my concern, that they are my sons, that I want to know what's going on, he says again that he already said he won't talk to me about it. I ask him about the food thing, his smart ass answer is "how abut that"..I told him that's illegal, he said "call the cops", so I told him the truth, I already had, forgot to mention the DCF part, but they made them-self known at which point the Ex BLEW up and said that I, me, had started a war and if I wanted one then I was going to get it that I would not be allowed to talk to or see my sons again without a court order so I have not seen them since a few days before Thanksgiving. I have not spoken with them either.