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I need to update, Im here at work, so I don't know how much I'll get out...I'm not living at Ron's anymore...right now, I'm stayin at the hotel, until I can get something worked out. I don't know where Im goin to go. I don't have a whole lot of choices, my mother's house is disgusting. I couldnt live there if I wanted to she doesn't clean it and she jsut let's the dog piss all over the kitchen and doesn't even bother to mop it up or anything. I'd be worse off there than anywhere else. I cant' really afford my own place anymore, it was getting out of hand as it was when I was living by myself. So, my only other choice maybe to pack up and move and go live somewhere else with friends until I can get re-established.
It all started when I told Nikki (ron's sister) she couldn't use my car anymore, she didn't take it too well, but oh well the car was fallin apart and didn't need to be driven as much. Not to mention it was my car. I was nice about it, I wrote her an email, b/c it was hard to talk to her, without her getting nasty about shit. She blew it all out of porportion and started slinging all kinds of accusations and saying I was lieing about the car and a whole mess of other shit that was just bullshit. So when confronted her the argument got loud and she told me to get out. I made it clear to her, that persuant to florida law she would have to evict me since my belongings had been there over night. She told me I had 5 min to get my shit and get out, I told her that was ignorant not to mention impossible. I told her I would get out but she would have to give me time ot get me shit as there was hurricane and bad weather. I got a few of my things that night, like my clothes and computer. I was going to go back Monday while she was at work to get the remainder of it, but she changed the locks and lied to the cops saying that I told her that I was moving out. They said since she said that, she could legally change the locks and keep my shit basically, or I would have to make arrangements thru her for law enforcement to be there. Throughout all of this Ron and I tried not to let this affect our personal friendship an I never thought it would. I came by Monday when Ron was there to pick up some of my stuff. I got everything but the furniture basically. After that I made arrangements with Ron to come by today, to pick the remainder up in my friends pick up truck around 10am..well when I arrived Ron had been waiting for a while, it wasn't much after 10, but stil said he'd been waiting since 940...not my fault he said 10 (I found out yesterday that Ron has been running his mouth to people about me moving out and the circumstances and where I"m living and all that shit. well it wouldn't matter but he's telling someone who considers me an enemy and will do anything to hurt me)So, I figured i'd get my shit and be done with both the bitches...So anyway I got what i could the only thing I couldn't fit was my desk, I asked him if he wanted it and my fan and he said yes, to the fan and no desk, I said cool I'll leave it outside the door and I'll try to make it back to pick it up before work. Well once I dropped stuff off at mom's house and came back to the hotel and checked my email he had sent me a nasty email sayin that I needed to come get my shit this morning b/c Nikki was getting impatient. I replied sayin Nikki can go fuck her self and told him, that he better be glad I knew how to bite my tongue, b/c I had a lot to say and planned on sayin every bit of it. Well I clocked in at 3, didn't a chance to make it back and get my desk, so he calls me at work and wants to know when I'm coming to get my shit I told him I didn't know that I was working right now, and I would call him back later. He said, well I'll jsut bring it to you...I said no, you can just thro it in the dumpster if you're going to do that. B/c I can't do anything with it just yet. my car is over loaded. So anyway...he says no he's goin to bring it to me. I called him back and told him that if he came up here it would be a problem, I mean my boss was still her, not to come up here he got nasty with me so I told him look if you come up here, I'll have you trespassed that simple. He kept sayin he was goin to well that was at 330 and I haven't seen him yet. SO, hopefully he won't show up. He emailed me and told me that this was his big good bye and fuck you and started running his mouth so I emailed him back and told him what i had heard how he was talkin shit about me and telling my business to people who I don't consider friends at all and how I don't appreciate that. AFTER lieing to me about doing it. I haven't heard back from him and don't care if I ever do he and Nikki just signed on so I'm sure I'll have some emails waiting in my in box. I could care less. I just wish I had never moved in with him maybe it would have spared our firendship if there ever was one. Oh well you live you learn you pay taxes right?
SO I"m not worried about him at all, just worried about finding somewhere to go, I can't stay here much longer, my boss is getting antsy b/c her boss could find out and get us all in trouble. I have never been at such a loss... I have been down before but nothing like this.
It all started when I told Nikki (ron's sister) she couldn't use my car anymore, she didn't take it too well, but oh well the car was fallin apart and didn't need to be driven as much. Not to mention it was my car. I was nice about it, I wrote her an email, b/c it was hard to talk to her, without her getting nasty about shit. She blew it all out of porportion and started slinging all kinds of accusations and saying I was lieing about the car and a whole mess of other shit that was just bullshit. So when confronted her the argument got loud and she told me to get out. I made it clear to her, that persuant to florida law she would have to evict me since my belongings had been there over night. She told me I had 5 min to get my shit and get out, I told her that was ignorant not to mention impossible. I told her I would get out but she would have to give me time ot get me shit as there was hurricane and bad weather. I got a few of my things that night, like my clothes and computer. I was going to go back Monday while she was at work to get the remainder of it, but she changed the locks and lied to the cops saying that I told her that I was moving out. They said since she said that, she could legally change the locks and keep my shit basically, or I would have to make arrangements thru her for law enforcement to be there. Throughout all of this Ron and I tried not to let this affect our personal friendship an I never thought it would. I came by Monday when Ron was there to pick up some of my stuff. I got everything but the furniture basically. After that I made arrangements with Ron to come by today, to pick the remainder up in my friends pick up truck around 10am..well when I arrived Ron had been waiting for a while, it wasn't much after 10, but stil said he'd been waiting since 940...not my fault he said 10 (I found out yesterday that Ron has been running his mouth to people about me moving out and the circumstances and where I"m living and all that shit. well it wouldn't matter but he's telling someone who considers me an enemy and will do anything to hurt me)So, I figured i'd get my shit and be done with both the bitches...So anyway I got what i could the only thing I couldn't fit was my desk, I asked him if he wanted it and my fan and he said yes, to the fan and no desk, I said cool I'll leave it outside the door and I'll try to make it back to pick it up before work. Well once I dropped stuff off at mom's house and came back to the hotel and checked my email he had sent me a nasty email sayin that I needed to come get my shit this morning b/c Nikki was getting impatient. I replied sayin Nikki can go fuck her self and told him, that he better be glad I knew how to bite my tongue, b/c I had a lot to say and planned on sayin every bit of it. Well I clocked in at 3, didn't a chance to make it back and get my desk, so he calls me at work and wants to know when I'm coming to get my shit I told him I didn't know that I was working right now, and I would call him back later. He said, well I'll jsut bring it to you...I said no, you can just thro it in the dumpster if you're going to do that. B/c I can't do anything with it just yet. my car is over loaded. So anyway...he says no he's goin to bring it to me. I called him back and told him that if he came up here it would be a problem, I mean my boss was still her, not to come up here he got nasty with me so I told him look if you come up here, I'll have you trespassed that simple. He kept sayin he was goin to well that was at 330 and I haven't seen him yet. SO, hopefully he won't show up. He emailed me and told me that this was his big good bye and fuck you and started running his mouth so I emailed him back and told him what i had heard how he was talkin shit about me and telling my business to people who I don't consider friends at all and how I don't appreciate that. AFTER lieing to me about doing it. I haven't heard back from him and don't care if I ever do he and Nikki just signed on so I'm sure I'll have some emails waiting in my in box. I could care less. I just wish I had never moved in with him maybe it would have spared our firendship if there ever was one. Oh well you live you learn you pay taxes right?
SO I"m not worried about him at all, just worried about finding somewhere to go, I can't stay here much longer, my boss is getting antsy b/c her boss could find out and get us all in trouble. I have never been at such a loss... I have been down before but nothing like this.