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colddiamond

so this is the end?

Oct 03, 2004 19:16

So this is what all I thought was simple friendliness has amounted to - chaos and truth singed with pain. I can't help that it's almost impossible for me to let things go, it's just the way I am - I remember things, I talk to people, I take things to heart. Always. Anything ( Read more... )

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Re: continued... anonymous October 9 2004, 13:42:02 UTC

When lots of people tell you your whole life is wrong, guess what! It means there is a general opinion your life is screwed up. Now, firstly, you shouldn't care if everyone thinks your life is screwed up, unless you agree. This is your life. If you really want to know how they think your life is screwed up, next time they tell you ask them exactly which aspect they think is all wrong. Then, sit back and ask yourself is it REALLY all that twisted. If it isn't, kindly tell the person to get off your back about it. If it is, ask how they suggest you fix it. Simple, isn't it? I'm not insulting your intelligience...;)

Your friends are just trying to help you, they are. Really. Even if it feels like they're slapping you in the face at the moment, they just want to make everything all happy and good. Unless they aren't really your friends and they just want to screw you over, DUNDUNDUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNN j/k. < we arent. maybe claude is, but the most of us care alot about you.>

Now to actually get them to help, you have to write sorry cards or something, emails...letters, whatever...to everyone you feel like apologizing to. That way, they know you still care. No, don't write one to Claude. He's just out to make you feel bad. I suggest you sever all ties with him and leave him to steep in his sadistic juices. Yeah, back to those sorry cards. After that, or incorporated in the cards, ask your friends what you're doing wrong and what they want you to change. I expect they will be quite happy to tell you, after they took the trouble to bitch at you and everything. Everything should fall into place from there.

No, this is not some magical recipe that will get your social life back on track in a second. This is just what I would do if I totally messed up every relationship I have. You might have to tweak it to fit some people. I don't know all your friends, or better advice would ensue. And don't be surprised if it doesn't work at first, things take time to mend completely. Persevere and it will get better. Eventually.

Good luck!

Kitti

P.S. Email me with results!

you're a great person david...and i feel bad for ever wanting to change anything. life should just follow its own course and settle itself. But if you think about it, last year, I've almost never talked to you during classes, because i didnt have any classes with you. most of our magical conversations are online. its not a bad thing either. conversation is conversation. :-) you're my best friend, dont forget that.

Re: continued... colddiamond October 9 2004, 19:38:35 UTC

Thank you so much. That means the world to me that you responded and commented, my dear "anonymous". ^_^

Re: continued... kittineko October 10 2004, 09:13:02 UTC

I did something right! W00T!
Kudos to anonymous!
Cards are awesome man...don't diss the cards...mahahaha...
Love you all

kitti

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