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"So back to the part that I was gonna write for Brad. On the car ride back we talked about girls and the dating game. This was struck up when we saw a couple in each others arms on the corner while we passed them in the car. Brad started laughing and starting going through the motions on his thoughts on women. This then push Sean to sit there and make fun of Brad, which in all reality he deserves. :D However, Brad posed some interesting points in his conversations. Basically he talked about how he thinks the whole dating thing is stupid and if people want sex, they shouldn't have to hop around and spend thousands of dollars to court them etc. etc. I talked to Brad about this and said that you don't have to court girls there are plenty of easy girls, but Brad doesn't want them because they are sluts. Sooo, why aren't guys sluts I proposed to Brad. Well he said that it's because they have to work so hard to get women doing the whole courting thing etc. So it's an accomplishment for guys, but girls if they want some, all they really have to do is ask and it's theirs. Anyway, so I thought about this, if things went the way Brad wanted it, then technically he doesn't have to work for it, therefore this whole system of pimps and sluts collapses.
I don't know if that made any sense at all. I think I just babbled and probably mixed up what Brad was talking about haha. Anyhoo, I found the conversation entertaining, but my take on girls is a bit different. However, after writing here for a little bit I've decided that I'm not really comfortable talking about this topic in regards to my personal opinion on the matter on here. Well at least not publically, but if you're interested get a hold of me and chances are I'll be comfortable enough to talk to you about it."
Okay, a need to clarify Matt's post. Well I would just like to start out by saying that I'm technically a relationship guy, and would prefer a good girl over easy sex any day of the week. That said, I was criticizing the dating game. It's pretty amusing to watch guys dancing around like peacocks showing off their feathers in order to attract women. That whole random contact and the game is funny to me. We have to chat it up and so forth, it's just so... err... primitive. -It can be fun though. :)- Obviously girls have to be protective, because some guys are dicks and will treat them like objects. This is something which I certainly do not advocate. I always prefer honesty over anything else, as well as communication. Despite my proficiency for bullshit, I do not necessarily have a proclivity for it. I actually just wish that couples will talk about their problems and attempt to work them out. I think that the assumed social rules, especially in relationships, are a bunch of crap. I just find it amazing that all of the show and all of the nonsense associated with the male-female dance of the human species has continued for so long. What I think is something to be commented on is the fact that two intelligent people can still adhere to the same ridiculous social strata that has evolved over generations. Communication is the hardest thing in relationships, when in fact it should be the easiest. It's just the simple issue about talking about what both people are thinking. Unfortunately that is NEVER the case with men and women. Serendipity is a funny thing, but it is precipitated on a lack of discussion. I dunno, I just find the mating scene interesting, and vastly more complicated than it has to be. I don't expect any more, but that doesn't mean that I can't comment. I just don't like unneccessary rules, and we all know they exist in the relationship world. BTW, I am quite a romantic, so I appreciate all of these things, but I suppose that's where logic and emotion differ. Welcome to the human race, it's quite a fun ride. -I was drinking when I wrote this, so feel free to comment/criticize, I love it!-
I don't know if that made any sense at all. I think I just babbled and probably mixed up what Brad was talking about haha. Anyhoo, I found the conversation entertaining, but my take on girls is a bit different. However, after writing here for a little bit I've decided that I'm not really comfortable talking about this topic in regards to my personal opinion on the matter on here. Well at least not publically, but if you're interested get a hold of me and chances are I'll be comfortable enough to talk to you about it."
Okay, a need to clarify Matt's post. Well I would just like to start out by saying that I'm technically a relationship guy, and would prefer a good girl over easy sex any day of the week. That said, I was criticizing the dating game. It's pretty amusing to watch guys dancing around like peacocks showing off their feathers in order to attract women. That whole random contact and the game is funny to me. We have to chat it up and so forth, it's just so... err... primitive. -It can be fun though. :)- Obviously girls have to be protective, because some guys are dicks and will treat them like objects. This is something which I certainly do not advocate. I always prefer honesty over anything else, as well as communication. Despite my proficiency for bullshit, I do not necessarily have a proclivity for it. I actually just wish that couples will talk about their problems and attempt to work them out. I think that the assumed social rules, especially in relationships, are a bunch of crap. I just find it amazing that all of the show and all of the nonsense associated with the male-female dance of the human species has continued for so long. What I think is something to be commented on is the fact that two intelligent people can still adhere to the same ridiculous social strata that has evolved over generations. Communication is the hardest thing in relationships, when in fact it should be the easiest. It's just the simple issue about talking about what both people are thinking. Unfortunately that is NEVER the case with men and women. Serendipity is a funny thing, but it is precipitated on a lack of discussion. I dunno, I just find the mating scene interesting, and vastly more complicated than it has to be. I don't expect any more, but that doesn't mean that I can't comment. I just don't like unneccessary rules, and we all know they exist in the relationship world. BTW, I am quite a romantic, so I appreciate all of these things, but I suppose that's where logic and emotion differ. Welcome to the human race, it's quite a fun ride. -I was drinking when I wrote this, so feel free to comment/criticize, I love it!-