I'm in Love...I'm in Love...I'm in Love with a Strict Machine...
It's practically Summer outside today.
Today is one of those days that have become rare for me, unfortunately--it's a day where I feel good. No, not good. Peaceful. Think of a lake without ripples, an ocean with perfect, blue green hue, untouched by the wind. Yeah. That's me.
I usually try to keep from the mushy stuff, but this morning I found ( Read more... )
I, too, understand how belittled one can feel when their family and friends tell them that they need to "really think" about what they're doing. I listened a little too much to what my grandmother said about my first husband, and it caused nothing but problems. Only you can filter through what they are saying and decide whether or not their information is valid. Yes, when multiple people come across with the same view point, it can feel a bit...choking...but not to worry, hon. You seem to be a very intelligent and beautiful (internally and externally) person with enough common sense and inner strength to perservere. When things seem to be getting you down, remember that you have the right to tell them to SHUT THE F*#@ UP and listen to what YOU have to say. You have the ability to see what they are saying and merit it as you see fit. Communicate with Robert up front and as soon as is possible if you ever believe there is legitimate concern. Communication is the BIGGEST problem between two people in a relationship. If you keep the lines of communication open and face problems head on, you will feel so much better in the long run. At least, that has been my experience. Hope this helps. And, yes, still looking forward to spring break. *hugs* =) Take care, and don't let anyone get you down, Ari. You're better than that.
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