i have to get this out
dear k***and j****
what the fuck do you think you are doing! you're going to have a baby that would be great news if it was someone ready and could deal with it. you have melt downs everyday and have almost ended your relationship over a sex swing. you're not married and who cares that you're engaged you've got more then half of your close friends against you getting married... you're 22 and 24 you still act like your 2 and 4. every other day you are bitching about money how you need it and have to have it and need to get new and or part time jobs. then you go and blow 2000 on new computers because the ones you bought last year you don't like as much. what the fuck!!! j you got a part time job and then walked out because "it wasn't for you" you were there an hour! 1 fucking hour! we all know you planned on quitting it. you all but said so because k wanted to spend time with you and you got your normal hours back at your other job till the end of September.
j it should be a clue to you something isn't right when most of the people you've told say either she's trapped you or is lying to trap you. we've told you to push off the wedding. we've told you more so now because 1st off spending money on a wedding right now is dumb you live in a super small apartment and have nothing for a child and don't even know how to raise a child. you've both got issues to work out. 1st off pull the stick out of your ass and loosen up otherwise you could very well hurt this child because it's not going to do everything you want it to do. second off k needs to get the abusive people out of her life. if they had no problem abusing her sexually what makes you think they won't do the same to that child. who cares if it's family as far as i think they should be dead or in jail but again you chose to keep this person in your life.
k for you to think you can still do school fulltime and work parttime as cna while still raising this child... i'm not saying it's impossible but i know better people who've tried and failed and they had a support system you don't even have the 10th of. i truly believed you've planned this and wanted to trap him because all the nosie we as friends to j have made was making sense and you weren't going to be married next year. i can't see where anything good will come from this baby. you say you're in it for the long haul and well you haven't given him a choice anymore. you told me you went off your birth control months ago... what the fuck do you think happens when you go off that shit...
you've moved your wedding date up and give the reason as you're catholic....well if you wanted to be true to that you wouldn't of been living together or having sex together and not having this baby...
and before you even think this is because me and mark want a baby it's not. we've got other friends who are expecting and i've overjoyed they are. they have a healthy home to bring this child into. they aren't all married but they aren't wanting to ever get married. they have jobs and careers and aren't always at eachother over stupid things like the whole damn sex swing. they are grown up enough to know what they want and need.
i can say this when i was 18 i had my son. he passed before i had to find a way to make things work but i can tell you this. he wasn't planned and i wasn't ready but i got ready and made a plan. when he passed away i knew i was way too young and wasn't sure i'd ever be ready for a child now at 28 i feel i'm ready.. but to think of the things i've done between just 22-27 i know i couldn't of done those things with a child. there would of never been rocky horror or london or hell even mark because a child takes up your life. you have yet to see that or learn that you get upset when people try to tell you that without understanding they are telling you to try to save you some hardships. i'm not saying make an appointment at a clinic but if i was you i'd look into adoption make someone else who's more then ready happy.
what the fuck do you think you are doing! you're going to have a baby that would be great news if it was someone ready and could deal with it. you have melt downs everyday and have almost ended your relationship over a sex swing. you're not married and who cares that you're engaged you've got more then half of your close friends against you getting married... you're 22 and 24 you still act like your 2 and 4. every other day you are bitching about money how you need it and have to have it and need to get new and or part time jobs. then you go and blow 2000 on new computers because the ones you bought last year you don't like as much. what the fuck!!! j you got a part time job and then walked out because "it wasn't for you" you were there an hour! 1 fucking hour! we all know you planned on quitting it. you all but said so because k wanted to spend time with you and you got your normal hours back at your other job till the end of September.
j it should be a clue to you something isn't right when most of the people you've told say either she's trapped you or is lying to trap you. we've told you to push off the wedding. we've told you more so now because 1st off spending money on a wedding right now is dumb you live in a super small apartment and have nothing for a child and don't even know how to raise a child. you've both got issues to work out. 1st off pull the stick out of your ass and loosen up otherwise you could very well hurt this child because it's not going to do everything you want it to do. second off k needs to get the abusive people out of her life. if they had no problem abusing her sexually what makes you think they won't do the same to that child. who cares if it's family as far as i think they should be dead or in jail but again you chose to keep this person in your life.
k for you to think you can still do school fulltime and work parttime as cna while still raising this child... i'm not saying it's impossible but i know better people who've tried and failed and they had a support system you don't even have the 10th of. i truly believed you've planned this and wanted to trap him because all the nosie we as friends to j have made was making sense and you weren't going to be married next year. i can't see where anything good will come from this baby. you say you're in it for the long haul and well you haven't given him a choice anymore. you told me you went off your birth control months ago... what the fuck do you think happens when you go off that shit...
you've moved your wedding date up and give the reason as you're catholic....well if you wanted to be true to that you wouldn't of been living together or having sex together and not having this baby...
and before you even think this is because me and mark want a baby it's not. we've got other friends who are expecting and i've overjoyed they are. they have a healthy home to bring this child into. they aren't all married but they aren't wanting to ever get married. they have jobs and careers and aren't always at eachother over stupid things like the whole damn sex swing. they are grown up enough to know what they want and need.
i can say this when i was 18 i had my son. he passed before i had to find a way to make things work but i can tell you this. he wasn't planned and i wasn't ready but i got ready and made a plan. when he passed away i knew i was way too young and wasn't sure i'd ever be ready for a child now at 28 i feel i'm ready.. but to think of the things i've done between just 22-27 i know i couldn't of done those things with a child. there would of never been rocky horror or london or hell even mark because a child takes up your life. you have yet to see that or learn that you get upset when people try to tell you that without understanding they are telling you to try to save you some hardships. i'm not saying make an appointment at a clinic but if i was you i'd look into adoption make someone else who's more then ready happy.