you must have had the settings so you see other people's gifts too- so you don't get that, go on the 'modify friend'or notifications (http://www.livejournal.com/manage/settings/?cat=notifications) page,and just deselect the option to get notifications when someone sends them a gift
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ehh xP maybe it's to do with lj's notifications messing up over the last few days;; i guess there's not a lot you can do except wait and see orz
mm trying to find a new family might be a good option..i think you should consider all of the things you're not enjoying right now.. for example, kids might be nicer in a different family, but you'll probably still have to clean and cook. however, the hours might be different. if it's stuff that might be different with a different family, go for it ! or maybe it's the general au-pairing you don't like ; 3;
yeah,you're right, i guess there's only a few things that would be helped by talking to them..
i can't really give you much advice as it's all up to you xD; hope you find the right decision though! hehe i still want to meet you someday,though xDD arr and i've just moved back home away from london for christmas ; 3;
Yes you are right. I think I would like the children to be younger and it would be nice if the mum wasn't single so that I'm the only grown up except for her. And less cooking would be loved. Maybe it is the general au pairing that I don't like. That's another reason why I'm in a dilemma, because there's no point in changing if I'll just stay unhappy :/
So far you advices have been great - so thank you so much for that!! *hug* And I still want to meet you too!!! ;3; I hope we can arrange something soon..
yep those points definitely would make a big difference- i know it sounds kinda kiddyish or whatever,but maybe it'd help to write a list or something to help sort those things out
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I've been thinking about what you've said and I've come to the decision that I would like to change family. Maybe it'll be the same, maybe not, but at least I've tried... I don't think there are any other jobs that would allow me to live and work in England, right?
So my plan is to go back to Denmark and look for another family and then come back as soon as possible. Hopefully it'll be better... I don't want to be unhappy...
Yay! I'll look forward to meeting you then! *hugs* <333
mm i can't think of any jobs you could get otll but yeah, i think it's worth trying ! awesome, go for it ! :DD hope next time is better,don't be unhappy ; -;
no problem,glad i could help ! iii see you sometime next month then hopefully <333
*hugs* I told her that I didn't want to be their au pair any more. She didn't get as angry as I feared so that was nice. Now I just have to go back to Denmark and find another family!
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mm trying to find a new family might be a good option..i think you should consider all of the things you're not enjoying right now.. for example, kids might be nicer in a different family, but you'll probably still have to clean and cook. however, the hours might be different.
if it's stuff that might be different with a different family, go for it ! or maybe it's the general au-pairing you don't like ; 3;
yeah,you're right, i guess there's only a few things that would be helped by talking to them..
i can't really give you much advice as it's all up to you xD;
hope you find the right decision though!
hehe i still want to meet you someday,though xDD arr and i've just moved back home away from london for christmas ; 3;
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Yes you are right. I think I would like the children to be younger and it would be nice if the mum wasn't single so that I'm the only grown up except for her. And less cooking would be loved.
Maybe it is the general au pairing that I don't like. That's another reason why I'm in a dilemma, because there's no point in changing if I'll just stay unhappy :/
So far you advices have been great - so thank you so much for that!! *hug*
And I still want to meet you too!!! ;3; I hope we can arrange something soon..
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I don't think there are any other jobs that would allow me to live and work in England, right?
So my plan is to go back to Denmark and look for another family and then come back as soon as possible. Hopefully it'll be better... I don't want to be unhappy...
Yay! I'll look forward to meeting you then! *hugs* <333
Thank you so much!!
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but yeah, i think it's worth trying ! awesome, go for it ! :DD
hope next time is better,don't be unhappy ; -;
no problem,glad i could help ! iii see you sometime next month then hopefully <333
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I told her that I didn't want to be their au pair any more. She didn't get as angry as I feared so that was nice. Now I just have to go back to Denmark and find another family!
Yes, hopefully I'll see you soon!! <333
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